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douglasgermann
Tue, Jan 28, 2025 2:07 AM

What rituals do you like to use in OS? In opening, in the individual sessions you call or attend, in closing circles, or elsewhere?

:- Doug. Germann
South Bend, IN, USA

What rituals do you like to use in OS? In opening, in the individual sessions you call or attend, in closing circles, or elsewhere? :- Doug. Germann South Bend, IN, USA
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Jeff Aitken
Tue, Jan 28, 2025 2:56 PM

Hi Doug. I've always worked "by the book" - tho learned these basic forms
from HHO before the books came out.

The mindful setup of the physical spaces is an important "grounding" ritual
for me. The paper and pens around the center of the main circle, and
perhaps other central items as appropriate for the event. Each breakout
space gets a semicircle of chairs to invite people in, along with pens and
paper.

Our friend Lisa Heft gifted me a smooth black stone to pass around at a
closing circle, the most recent tool of that kind that I've used.

Starting my own breakouts (when I'm not the event facilitator) with a go
around, inviting us to speak our introductions and intentions, has a kind
of ritual quality.

And all can be adapted for work online.

Personal preparation rituals include a good night's sleep, tho even without
that, a naptime is available after the first breakouts have begun!

Silent meditations, well before the event, are a personal practice
preference. It feels appropriate to enter the day with that quality of
mindful attention.

How about you?

Jeff

On Mon, Jan 27, 2025, 9:08 PM douglasgermann via OSList everyone@oslist.org
wrote:

What rituals do you like to use in OS? In opening, in the individual
sessions you call or attend, in closing circles, or elsewhere?

:- Doug. Germann
South Bend, IN, USA

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Hi Doug. I've always worked "by the book" - tho learned these basic forms from HHO before the books came out. The mindful setup of the physical spaces is an important "grounding" ritual for me. The paper and pens around the center of the main circle, and perhaps other central items as appropriate for the event. Each breakout space gets a semicircle of chairs to invite people in, along with pens and paper. Our friend Lisa Heft gifted me a smooth black stone to pass around at a closing circle, the most recent tool of that kind that I've used. Starting my own breakouts (when I'm not the event facilitator) with a go around, inviting us to speak our introductions and intentions, has a kind of ritual quality. And all can be adapted for work online. Personal preparation rituals include a good night's sleep, tho even without that, a naptime is available after the first breakouts have begun! Silent meditations, well before the event, are a personal practice preference. It feels appropriate to enter the day with that quality of mindful attention. How about you? Jeff On Mon, Jan 27, 2025, 9:08 PM douglasgermann via OSList <everyone@oslist.org> wrote: > What rituals do you like to use in OS? In opening, in the individual > sessions you call or attend, in closing circles, or elsewhere? > > :- Doug. Germann > South Bend, IN, USA > > OSList mailing list -- everyone@oslist.org > To unsubscribe send an email to everyone-leave@oslist.org > See the archives here: https://oslist.org/empathy/list/everyone.oslist.org
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Chris Corrigan
Tue, Jan 28, 2025 5:11 PM

I have lots of little rituals, but one I always find myself doing when I am setting up the wall and ripping up dozens of little pieces of tape is to offer a little blessing as I put every piece of tape on the wall.  “May this be a good session…may this be a good session…”

Chris

On Jan 28, 2025, at 6:56 AM, Jeff Aitken via OSList everyone@oslist.org wrote:

Hi Doug. I've always worked "by the book" - tho learned these basic forms from HHO before the books came out.

The mindful setup of the physical spaces is an important "grounding" ritual for me. The paper and pens around the center of the main circle, and perhaps other central items as appropriate for the event. Each breakout space gets a semicircle of chairs to invite people in, along with pens and paper.

Our friend Lisa Heft gifted me a smooth black stone to pass around at a closing circle, the most recent tool of that kind that I've used.

Starting my own breakouts (when I'm not the event facilitator) with a go around, inviting us to speak our introductions and intentions, has a kind of ritual quality.

And all can be adapted for work online.

Personal preparation rituals include a good night's sleep, tho even without that, a naptime is available after the first breakouts have begun!

Silent meditations, well before the event, are a personal practice preference. It feels appropriate to enter the day with that quality of mindful attention.

How about you?

Jeff

On Mon, Jan 27, 2025, 9:08 PM douglasgermann via OSList <everyone@oslist.org mailto:everyone@oslist.org> wrote:

What rituals do you like to use in OS? In opening, in the individual sessions you call or attend, in closing circles, or elsewhere?

:- Doug. Germann
South Bend, IN, USA

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I have lots of little rituals, but one I always find myself doing when I am setting up the wall and ripping up dozens of little pieces of tape is to offer a little blessing as I put every piece of tape on the wall. “May this be a good session…may this be a good session…” Chris > On Jan 28, 2025, at 6:56 AM, Jeff Aitken via OSList <everyone@oslist.org> wrote: > > Hi Doug. I've always worked "by the book" - tho learned these basic forms from HHO before the books came out. > > The mindful setup of the physical spaces is an important "grounding" ritual for me. The paper and pens around the center of the main circle, and perhaps other central items as appropriate for the event. Each breakout space gets a semicircle of chairs to invite people in, along with pens and paper. > > Our friend Lisa Heft gifted me a smooth black stone to pass around at a closing circle, the most recent tool of that kind that I've used. > > Starting my own breakouts (when I'm not the event facilitator) with a go around, inviting us to speak our introductions and intentions, has a kind of ritual quality. > > And all can be adapted for work online. > > Personal preparation rituals include a good night's sleep, tho even without that, a naptime is available after the first breakouts have begun! > > Silent meditations, well before the event, are a personal practice preference. It feels appropriate to enter the day with that quality of mindful attention. > > How about you? > > Jeff > > > On Mon, Jan 27, 2025, 9:08 PM douglasgermann via OSList <everyone@oslist.org <mailto:everyone@oslist.org>> wrote: >> What rituals do you like to use in OS? In opening, in the individual sessions you call or attend, in closing circles, or elsewhere? >> >> :- Doug. Germann >> South Bend, IN, USA >> >> OSList mailing list -- everyone@oslist.org <mailto:everyone@oslist.org> >> To unsubscribe send an email to everyone-leave@oslist.org <mailto:everyone-leave@oslist.org> >> See the archives here: https://oslist.org/empathy/list/everyone.oslist.org > OSList mailing list -- everyone@oslist.org > To unsubscribe send an email to everyone-leave@oslist.org > See the archives here: https://oslist.org/empathy/list/everyone.oslist.org
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douglasgermann
Tue, Jan 28, 2025 5:42 PM

Had not thought of this when I posted the question, and now that I focus: When the room is empty and the chairs set in a circle, I go around and offer an individual blessing on whomever might from time to time use each chair. They are individual to that chair: May you be happy; may you be healthy; may you find your words; may you be strong; may you be at ease; may you ask your question; may you get hints of answers.

Personalizing softens me.

:- Doug.
On Tuesday, January 28th, 2025 at 12:11 PM, Chris Corrigan via OSList everyone@oslist.org wrote:

I have lots of little rituals, but one I always find myself doing when I am setting up the wall and ripping up dozens of little pieces of tape is to offer a little blessing as I put every piece of tape on the wall. “May this be a good session…may this be a good session…”

Chris

On Jan 28, 2025, at 6:56 AM, Jeff Aitken via OSList everyone@oslist.org wrote:

Hi Doug. I've always worked "by the book" - tho learned these basic forms from HHO before the books came out.

The mindful setup of the physical spaces is an important "grounding" ritual for me. The paper and pens around the center of the main circle, and perhaps other central items as appropriate for the event. Each breakout space gets a semicircle of chairs to invite people in, along with pens and paper.

Our friend Lisa Heft gifted me a smooth black stone to pass around at a closing circle, the most recent tool of that kind that I've used.

Starting my own breakouts (when I'm not the event facilitator) with a go around, inviting us to speak our introductions and intentions, has a kind of ritual quality.

And all can be adapted for work online.

Personal preparation rituals include a good night's sleep, tho even without that, a naptime is available after the first breakouts have begun!

Silent meditations, well before the event, are a personal practice preference. It feels appropriate to enter the day with that quality of mindful attention.

How about you?

Jeff

On Mon, Jan 27, 2025, 9:08 PM douglasgermann via OSList everyone@oslist.org wrote:

What rituals do you like to use in OS? In opening, in the individual sessions you call or attend, in closing circles, or elsewhere?

:- Doug. Germann
South Bend, IN, USA
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Had not thought of this when I posted the question, and now that I focus: When the room is empty and the chairs set in a circle, I go around and offer an individual blessing on whomever might from time to time use each chair. They are individual to that chair: May you be happy; may you be healthy; may you find your words; may you be strong; may you be at ease; may you ask your question; may you get hints of answers. Personalizing softens me. :- Doug. On Tuesday, January 28th, 2025 at 12:11 PM, Chris Corrigan via OSList <everyone@oslist.org> wrote: > I have lots of little rituals, but one I always find myself doing when I am setting up the wall and ripping up dozens of little pieces of tape is to offer a little blessing as I put every piece of tape on the wall. “May this be a good session…may this be a good session…” > > Chris > >> On Jan 28, 2025, at 6:56 AM, Jeff Aitken via OSList <everyone@oslist.org> wrote: >> >> Hi Doug. I've always worked "by the book" - tho learned these basic forms from HHO before the books came out. >> >> The mindful setup of the physical spaces is an important "grounding" ritual for me. The paper and pens around the center of the main circle, and perhaps other central items as appropriate for the event. Each breakout space gets a semicircle of chairs to invite people in, along with pens and paper. >> >> Our friend Lisa Heft gifted me a smooth black stone to pass around at a closing circle, the most recent tool of that kind that I've used. >> >> Starting my own breakouts (when I'm not the event facilitator) with a go around, inviting us to speak our introductions and intentions, has a kind of ritual quality. >> >> And all can be adapted for work online. >> >> Personal preparation rituals include a good night's sleep, tho even without that, a naptime is available after the first breakouts have begun! >> >> Silent meditations, well before the event, are a personal practice preference. It feels appropriate to enter the day with that quality of mindful attention. >> >> How about you? >> >> Jeff >> >> On Mon, Jan 27, 2025, 9:08 PM douglasgermann via OSList <everyone@oslist.org> wrote: >> >>> What rituals do you like to use in OS? In opening, in the individual sessions you call or attend, in closing circles, or elsewhere? >>> >>> :- Doug. Germann >>> South Bend, IN, USA >>> OSList mailing list -- everyone@oslist.org >>> To unsubscribe send an email to everyone-leave@oslist.org >>> See the archives here: https://oslist.org/empathy/list/everyone.oslist.org >> >> OSList mailing list -- everyone@oslist.org >> To unsubscribe send an email to everyone-leave@oslist.org >> See the archives here: https://oslist.org/empathy/list/everyone.oslist.org
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Peggy Holman
Thu, Jan 30, 2025 9:07 PM

Before things begin…

Making the signage - the principles and law, with butterflies and bumble bees — is part of my ritual. I remember Harrison talking about having the posters be home made sends a message anyone can do this. It doesn’t require slick production.

I also make sure the chairs are in the best possible circle. I often find circles don’t make much sense to conference set-up staff so there will be squares or odd shaped circles. There’s a trick someone taught me for making perfect circles. I do this with groups of people sometimes: if you look to your left and right and stand just slightly behind the people (or chair) next to you, you end up with a beautiful circle. So I tweak the chair layout to be smooth. And then I walk the circle before anyone arrives. Somehow it grounds me.

If I’m working with a team, we huddle for a few minutes and each speak to our aspirations for our time together. Then we take a few minutes to sort out any unspoken details on who is handling what set-up logistics. Then we do it!

Following an open space, I often do a tonglen meditation https://www.lionsroar.com/how-to-practice-tonglen-meditation/ for the participants. Breathing in any of their pain and suffering, breathing out well being for them.

Thanks for the question Doug.

Peggy

On Jan 28, 2025, at 9:42 AM, douglasgermann via OSList everyone@oslist.org wrote:

Had not thought of this when I posted the question, and now that I focus: When the room is empty and the chairs set in a circle, I go around and offer an individual blessing on whomever might from time to time use each chair. They are individual to that chair: May you be happy; may you be healthy; may you find your words; may you be strong; may you be at ease; may you ask your question; may you get hints of answers.

Personalizing softens me.

:- Doug.
On Tuesday, January 28th, 2025 at 12:11 PM, Chris Corrigan via OSList everyone@oslist.org wrote:

I have lots of little rituals, but one I always find myself doing when I am setting up the wall and ripping up dozens of little pieces of tape is to offer a little blessing as I put every piece of tape on the wall.  “May this be a good session…may this be a good session…”

Chris

On Jan 28, 2025, at 6:56 AM, Jeff Aitken via OSList everyone@oslist.org wrote:

Hi Doug. I've always worked "by the book" - tho learned these basic forms from HHO before the books came out.

The mindful setup of the physical spaces is an important "grounding" ritual for me. The paper and pens around the center of the main circle, and perhaps other central items as appropriate for the event. Each breakout space gets a semicircle of chairs to invite people in, along with pens and paper.

Our friend Lisa Heft gifted me a smooth black stone to pass around at a closing circle, the most recent tool of that kind that I've used.

Starting my own breakouts (when I'm not the event facilitator) with a go around, inviting us to speak our introductions and intentions, has a kind of ritual quality.

And all can be adapted for work online.

Personal preparation rituals include a good night's sleep, tho even without that, a naptime is available after the first breakouts have begun!

Silent meditations, well before the event, are a personal practice preference. It feels appropriate to enter the day with that quality of mindful attention.

How about you?

Jeff

On Mon, Jan 27, 2025, 9:08 PM douglasgermann via OSList <everyone@oslist.org mailto:everyone@oslist.org> wrote:

What rituals do you like to use in OS? In opening, in the individual sessions you call or attend, in closing circles, or elsewhere?

:- Doug. Germann
South Bend, IN, USA

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Before things begin… Making the signage - the principles and law, with butterflies and bumble bees — is part of my ritual. I remember Harrison talking about having the posters be home made sends a message anyone can do this. It doesn’t require slick production. I also make sure the chairs are in the best possible circle. I often find circles don’t make much sense to conference set-up staff so there will be squares or odd shaped circles. There’s a trick someone taught me for making perfect circles. I do this with groups of people sometimes: if you look to your left and right and stand just slightly behind the people (or chair) next to you, you end up with a beautiful circle. So I tweak the chair layout to be smooth. And then I walk the circle before anyone arrives. Somehow it grounds me. If I’m working with a team, we huddle for a few minutes and each speak to our aspirations for our time together. Then we take a few minutes to sort out any unspoken details on who is handling what set-up logistics. Then we do it! Following an open space, I often do a tonglen meditation <https://www.lionsroar.com/how-to-practice-tonglen-meditation/> for the participants. Breathing in any of their pain and suffering, breathing out well being for them. Thanks for the question Doug. Peggy > On Jan 28, 2025, at 9:42 AM, douglasgermann via OSList <everyone@oslist.org> wrote: > > Had not thought of this when I posted the question, and now that I focus: When the room is empty and the chairs set in a circle, I go around and offer an individual blessing on whomever might from time to time use each chair. They are individual to that chair: May you be happy; may you be healthy; may you find your words; may you be strong; may you be at ease; may you ask your question; may you get hints of answers. > > Personalizing softens me. > > :- Doug. > On Tuesday, January 28th, 2025 at 12:11 PM, Chris Corrigan via OSList <everyone@oslist.org> wrote: >> I have lots of little rituals, but one I always find myself doing when I am setting up the wall and ripping up dozens of little pieces of tape is to offer a little blessing as I put every piece of tape on the wall. “May this be a good session…may this be a good session…” >> >> Chris >> >>> On Jan 28, 2025, at 6:56 AM, Jeff Aitken via OSList <everyone@oslist.org> wrote: >>> >>> Hi Doug. I've always worked "by the book" - tho learned these basic forms from HHO before the books came out. >>> >>> The mindful setup of the physical spaces is an important "grounding" ritual for me. The paper and pens around the center of the main circle, and perhaps other central items as appropriate for the event. Each breakout space gets a semicircle of chairs to invite people in, along with pens and paper. >>> >>> Our friend Lisa Heft gifted me a smooth black stone to pass around at a closing circle, the most recent tool of that kind that I've used. >>> >>> Starting my own breakouts (when I'm not the event facilitator) with a go around, inviting us to speak our introductions and intentions, has a kind of ritual quality. >>> >>> And all can be adapted for work online. >>> >>> Personal preparation rituals include a good night's sleep, tho even without that, a naptime is available after the first breakouts have begun! >>> >>> Silent meditations, well before the event, are a personal practice preference. It feels appropriate to enter the day with that quality of mindful attention. >>> >>> How about you? >>> >>> Jeff >>> >>> >>> On Mon, Jan 27, 2025, 9:08 PM douglasgermann via OSList <everyone@oslist.org <mailto:everyone@oslist.org>> wrote: >>>> What rituals do you like to use in OS? In opening, in the individual sessions you call or attend, in closing circles, or elsewhere? >>>> >>>> :- Doug. Germann >>>> South Bend, IN, USA >>>> >>>> OSList mailing list -- everyone@oslist.org <mailto:everyone@oslist.org> >>>> To unsubscribe send an email to everyone-leave@oslist.org <mailto:everyone-leave@oslist.org> >>>> See the archives here: https://oslist.org/empathy/list/everyone.oslist.org >>> OSList mailing list -- everyone@oslist.org >>> To unsubscribe send an email to everyone-leave@oslist.org >>> See the archives here: https://oslist.org/empathy/list/everyone.oslist.org >> > > OSList mailing list -- everyone@oslist.org > To unsubscribe send an email to everyone-leave@oslist.org > See the archives here: https://oslist.org/empathy/list/everyone.oslist.org
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douglasgermann
Thu, Jan 30, 2025 10:41 PM

Peggy--

I especially like your huddle to take up your aspirations together. I wonder about bringing something like this into the breakout sessions. Have you?

These rituals sound similar to Arnold van Gennep's and Victor Turner's Separation/Preliminal stage, getting ready to enter the ambiguous middle stage (Transition/Liminal) where we do not know who or what we are: caterpillars now in chrysalis, turning to glop. (The third stage is reincorporation: we head back to wherever home is.)

:- Doug.
On Thursday, January 30th, 2025 at 4:07 PM, Peggy Holman via OSList everyone@oslist.org wrote:

Before things begin…

Making the signage - the principles and law, with butterflies and bumble bees — is part of my ritual. I remember Harrison talking about having the posters be home made sends a message anyone can do this. It doesn’t require slick production.

I also make sure the chairs are in the best possible circle. I often find circles don’t make much sense to conference set-up staff so there will be squares or odd shaped circles. There’s a trick someone taught me for making perfect circles. I do this with groups of people sometimes: if you look to your left and right and stand just slightly behind the people (or chair) next to you, you end up with a beautiful circle. So I tweak the chair layout to be smooth. And then I walk the circle before anyone arrives. Somehow it grounds me.

If I’m working with a team, we huddle for a few minutes and each speak to our aspirations for our time together. Then we take a few minutes to sort out any unspoken details on who is handling what set-up logistics. Then we do it!

Following an open space, I often do a tonglen meditation for the participants. Breathing in any of their pain and suffering, breathing out well being for them.

Thanks for the question Doug.

Peggy

On Jan 28, 2025, at 9:42 AM, douglasgermann via OSList everyone@oslist.org wrote:

Had not thought of this when I posted the question, and now that I focus: When the room is empty and the chairs set in a circle, I go around and offer an individual blessing on whomever might from time to time use each chair. They are individual to that chair: May you be happy; may you be healthy; may you find your words; may you be strong; may you be at ease; may you ask your question; may you get hints of answers.

Personalizing softens me.

:- Doug.
On Tuesday, January 28th, 2025 at 12:11 PM, Chris Corrigan via OSList everyone@oslist.org wrote:

I have lots of little rituals, but one I always find myself doing when I am setting up the wall and ripping up dozens of little pieces of tape is to offer a little blessing as I put every piece of tape on the wall. “May this be a good session…may this be a good session…”

Chris

On Jan 28, 2025, at 6:56 AM, Jeff Aitken via OSList everyone@oslist.org wrote:

Hi Doug. I've always worked "by the book" - tho learned these basic forms from HHO before the books came out.

The mindful setup of the physical spaces is an important "grounding" ritual for me. The paper and pens around the center of the main circle, and perhaps other central items as appropriate for the event. Each breakout space gets a semicircle of chairs to invite people in, along with pens and paper.

Our friend Lisa Heft gifted me a smooth black stone to pass around at a closing circle, the most recent tool of that kind that I've used.

Starting my own breakouts (when I'm not the event facilitator) with a go around, inviting us to speak our introductions and intentions, has a kind of ritual quality.

And all can be adapted for work online.

Personal preparation rituals include a good night's sleep, tho even without that, a naptime is available after the first breakouts have begun!

Silent meditations, well before the event, are a personal practice preference. It feels appropriate to enter the day with that quality of mindful attention.

How about you?

Jeff

On Mon, Jan 27, 2025, 9:08 PM douglasgermann via OSList everyone@oslist.org wrote:

What rituals do you like to use in OS? In opening, in the individual sessions you call or attend, in closing circles, or elsewhere?

:- Doug. Germann
South Bend, IN, USA
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Peggy-- I especially like your huddle to take up your aspirations together. I wonder about bringing something like this into the breakout sessions. Have you? These rituals sound similar to Arnold van Gennep's and Victor Turner's Separation/Preliminal stage, getting ready to enter the ambiguous middle stage (Transition/Liminal) where we do not know who or what we are: caterpillars now in chrysalis, turning to glop. (The third stage is reincorporation: we head back to wherever home is.) :- Doug. On Thursday, January 30th, 2025 at 4:07 PM, Peggy Holman via OSList <everyone@oslist.org> wrote: > Before things begin… > > Making the signage - the principles and law, with butterflies and bumble bees — is part of my ritual. I remember Harrison talking about having the posters be home made sends a message anyone can do this. It doesn’t require slick production. > > I also make sure the chairs are in the best possible circle. I often find circles don’t make much sense to conference set-up staff so there will be squares or odd shaped circles. There’s a trick someone taught me for making perfect circles. I do this with groups of people sometimes: if you look to your left and right and stand just slightly behind the people (or chair) next to you, you end up with a beautiful circle. So I tweak the chair layout to be smooth. And then I walk the circle before anyone arrives. Somehow it grounds me. > > If I’m working with a team, we huddle for a few minutes and each speak to our aspirations for our time together. Then we take a few minutes to sort out any unspoken details on who is handling what set-up logistics. Then we do it! > > Following an open space, I often do a [tonglen meditation](https://www.lionsroar.com/how-to-practice-tonglen-meditation/) for the participants. Breathing in any of their pain and suffering, breathing out well being for them. > > Thanks for the question Doug. > > Peggy > >> On Jan 28, 2025, at 9:42 AM, douglasgermann via OSList <everyone@oslist.org> wrote: >> >> Had not thought of this when I posted the question, and now that I focus: When the room is empty and the chairs set in a circle, I go around and offer an individual blessing on whomever might from time to time use each chair. They are individual to that chair: May you be happy; may you be healthy; may you find your words; may you be strong; may you be at ease; may you ask your question; may you get hints of answers. >> >> Personalizing softens me. >> >> :- Doug. >> On Tuesday, January 28th, 2025 at 12:11 PM, Chris Corrigan via OSList <everyone@oslist.org> wrote: >> >>> I have lots of little rituals, but one I always find myself doing when I am setting up the wall and ripping up dozens of little pieces of tape is to offer a little blessing as I put every piece of tape on the wall. “May this be a good session…may this be a good session…” >>> >>> Chris >>> >>>> On Jan 28, 2025, at 6:56 AM, Jeff Aitken via OSList <everyone@oslist.org> wrote: >>>> >>>> Hi Doug. I've always worked "by the book" - tho learned these basic forms from HHO before the books came out. >>>> >>>> The mindful setup of the physical spaces is an important "grounding" ritual for me. The paper and pens around the center of the main circle, and perhaps other central items as appropriate for the event. Each breakout space gets a semicircle of chairs to invite people in, along with pens and paper. >>>> >>>> Our friend Lisa Heft gifted me a smooth black stone to pass around at a closing circle, the most recent tool of that kind that I've used. >>>> >>>> Starting my own breakouts (when I'm not the event facilitator) with a go around, inviting us to speak our introductions and intentions, has a kind of ritual quality. >>>> >>>> And all can be adapted for work online. >>>> >>>> Personal preparation rituals include a good night's sleep, tho even without that, a naptime is available after the first breakouts have begun! >>>> >>>> Silent meditations, well before the event, are a personal practice preference. It feels appropriate to enter the day with that quality of mindful attention. >>>> >>>> How about you? >>>> >>>> Jeff >>>> >>>> On Mon, Jan 27, 2025, 9:08 PM douglasgermann via OSList <everyone@oslist.org> wrote: >>>> >>>>> What rituals do you like to use in OS? In opening, in the individual sessions you call or attend, in closing circles, or elsewhere? >>>>> >>>>> :- Doug. Germann >>>>> South Bend, IN, USA >>>>> OSList mailing list -- everyone@oslist.org >>>>> To unsubscribe send an email to everyone-leave@oslist.org >>>>> See the archives here: https://oslist.org/empathy/list/everyone.oslist.org >>>> >>>> OSList mailing list -- everyone@oslist.org >>>> To unsubscribe send an email to everyone-leave@oslist.org >>>> See the archives here: https://oslist.org/empathy/list/everyone.oslist.org >> >> OSList mailing list -- everyone@oslist.org >> To unsubscribe send an email to everyone-leave@oslist.org >> See the archives here: https://oslist.org/empathy/list/everyone.oslist.org
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Steve Cochran
Thu, Jan 30, 2025 11:25 PM

Thanks, Peggy - your 'homemade' and simple but so meaningful rituals really resonate with me. In my 35 years or so of 'facilitating' OS (Ha, Ha!) the simpler and tailored-to-the-intent/group and space 'always works'.

I love making the signs, especially - always kind of a Zen thing, not knowing what's coming but knowing the folks are in for a life-changing experience.

Peace, All -

Steve Cochran

Black Mountain NC

On Jan 30, 2025, at 4:08 PM, Peggy Holman via OSList <everyone@oslist.org> wrote:

Before things begin…

Making the signage - the principles and law, with butterflies and bumble bees — is part of my ritual. I remember Harrison talking about having the posters be home made sends a message anyone can do this. It doesn’t require slick production.

I also make sure the chairs are in the best possible circle. I often find circles don’t make much sense to conference set-up staff so there will be squares or odd shaped circles. There’s a trick someone taught me for making perfect circles. I do this with groups of people sometimes: if you look to your left and right and stand just slightly behind the people (or chair) next to you, you end up with a beautiful circle. So I tweak the chair layout to be smooth. And then I walk the circle before anyone arrives. Somehow it grounds me.

If I’m working with a team, we huddle for a few minutes and each speak to our aspirations for our time together. Then we take a few minutes to sort out any unspoken details on who is handling what set-up logistics. Then we do it!

Following an open space, I often do a tonglen meditation for the participants. Breathing in any of their pain and suffering, breathing out well being for them.

Thanks for the question Doug.

Peggy

On Jan 28, 2025, at 9:42 AM, douglasgermann via OSList <everyone@oslist.org> wrote:

Had not thought of this when I posted the question, and now that I focus: When the room is empty and the chairs set in a circle, I go around and offer an individual blessing on whomever might from time to time use each chair. They are individual to that chair: May you be happy; may you be healthy; may you find your words; may you be strong; may you be at ease; may you ask your question; may you get hints of answers.

Personalizing softens me.

:- Doug.

On Tuesday, January 28th, 2025 at 12:11 PM, Chris Corrigan via OSList <everyone@oslist.org> wrote:

I have lots of little rituals, but one I always find myself doing when I am setting up the wall and ripping up dozens of little pieces of tape is to offer a little blessing as I put every piece of tape on the wall. “May this be a good session…may this be a good session…”

Chris

On Jan 28, 2025, at 6:56 AM, Jeff Aitken via OSList <everyone@oslist.org> wrote:

Hi Doug. I've always worked "by the book" - tho learned these basic forms from HHO before the books came out.

The mindful setup of the physical spaces is an important "grounding" ritual for me. The paper and pens around the center of the main circle, and perhaps other central items as appropriate for the event. Each breakout space gets a semicircle of chairs to invite people in, along with pens and paper.

Our friend Lisa Heft gifted me a smooth black stone to pass around at a closing circle, the most recent tool of that kind that I've used.

Starting my own breakouts (when I'm not the event facilitator) with a go around, inviting us to speak our introductions and intentions, has a kind of ritual quality.

And all can be adapted for work online.

Personal preparation rituals include a good night's sleep, tho even without that, a naptime is available after the first breakouts have begun!

Silent meditations, well before the event, are a personal practice preference. It feels appropriate to enter the day with that quality of mindful attention.

How about you?

Jeff

On Mon, Jan 27, 2025, 9:08 PM douglasgermann via OSList <everyone@oslist.org> wrote:

What rituals do you like to use in OS? In opening, in the individual sessions you call or attend, in closing circles, or elsewhere?

:- Doug. Germann

South Bend, IN, USA

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John Abbe aka Slow
Sun, Feb 2, 2025 12:51 AM

This whole thread is gold, thank you! I'm about to offer a session in an open space (of sorts) and just reading this helps set me on a good flow into it.

Other than with the Center for Group Learning, it could be in practicing Open Space that I've gotten the most clear learnings about holding space, particularly for more than a few people at a time. (And yet somehow, I never run out of things to learn!)

Life,
Slow

"If you don't like the news, go out and make some of your own."
--Wes Nisker

On Thu, Jan 30, 2025, at 3:25 PM, Steve Cochran via OSList wrote:

Thanks, Peggy - your 'homemade' and simple but so meaningful rituals really resonate with me. In my 35 years or so of 'facilitating' OS (Ha, Ha!) the simpler and tailored-to-the-intent/group and space 'always works'.

I love making the signs, especially - always kind of a Zen thing, not knowing what's coming but knowing the folks are in for a life-changing experience.

Peace, All -
Steve Cochran
Black Mountain NC

On Jan 30, 2025, at 4:08 PM, Peggy Holman via OSList everyone@oslist.org wrote:
Before things begin…

Making the signage - the principles and law, with butterflies and bumble bees — is part of my ritual. I remember Harrison talking about having the posters be home made sends a message anyone can do this. It doesn’t require slick production.

I also make sure the chairs are in the best possible circle. I often find circles don’t make much sense to conference set-up staff so there will be squares or odd shaped circles. There’s a trick someone taught me for making perfect circles. I do this with groups of people sometimes: if you look to your left and right and stand just slightly behind the people (or chair) next to you, you end up with a beautiful circle. So I tweak the chair layout to be smooth. And then I walk the circle before anyone arrives. Somehow it grounds me.

If I’m working with a team, we huddle for a few minutes and each speak to our aspirations for our time together. Then we take a few minutes to sort out any unspoken details on who is handling what set-up logistics. Then we do it!

Following an open space, I often do a tonglen meditation https://www.lionsroar.com/how-to-practice-tonglen-meditation/ for the participants. Breathing in any of their pain and suffering, breathing out well being for them.

Thanks for the question Doug.

Peggy

On Jan 28, 2025, at 9:42 AM, douglasgermann via OSList everyone@oslist.org wrote:

Had not thought of this when I posted the question, and now that I focus: When the room is empty and the chairs set in a circle, I go around and offer an individual blessing on whomever might from time to time use each chair. They are individual to that chair: May you be happy; may you be healthy; may you find your words; may you be strong; may you be at ease; may you ask your question; may you get hints of answers.

Personalizing softens me.

:- Doug.
On Tuesday, January 28th, 2025 at 12:11 PM, Chris Corrigan via OSList everyone@oslist.org wrote:

I have lots of little rituals, but one I always find myself doing when I am setting up the wall and ripping up dozens of little pieces of tape is to offer a little blessing as I put every piece of tape on the wall.  “May this be a good session…may this be a good session…”

Chris

On Jan 28, 2025, at 6:56 AM, Jeff Aitken via OSList everyone@oslist.org wrote:

Hi Doug. I've always worked "by the book" - tho learned these basic forms from HHO before the books came out.

The mindful setup of the physical spaces is an important "grounding" ritual for me. The paper and pens around the center of the main circle, and perhaps other central items as appropriate for the event. Each breakout space gets a semicircle of chairs to invite people in, along with pens and paper.

Our friend Lisa Heft gifted me a smooth black stone to pass around at a closing circle, the most recent tool of that kind that I've used.

Starting my own breakouts (when I'm not the event facilitator) with a go around, inviting us to speak our introductions and intentions, has a kind of ritual quality.

And all can be adapted for work online.

Personal preparation rituals include a good night's sleep, tho even without that, a naptime is available after the first breakouts have begun!

Silent meditations, well before the event, are a personal practice preference. It feels appropriate to enter the day with that quality of mindful attention.

How about you?

Jeff

On Mon, Jan 27, 2025, 9:08 PM douglasgermann via OSList everyone@oslist.org wrote:

What rituals do you like to use in OS? In opening, in the individual sessions you call or attend, in closing circles, or elsewhere?

:- Doug. Germann
South Bend, IN, USA

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This whole thread is gold, thank you! I'm about to offer a session in an open space (of sorts) and just reading this helps set me on a good flow into it. Other than with the Center for Group Learning, it could be in practicing Open Space that I've gotten the most clear learnings about holding space, particularly for more than a few people at a time. (And yet somehow, I never run out of things to learn!) Life, Slow == "If you don't like the news, go out and make some of your own." --Wes Nisker On Thu, Jan 30, 2025, at 3:25 PM, Steve Cochran via OSList wrote: > > Thanks, Peggy - your 'homemade' and simple but so meaningful rituals really resonate with me. In my 35 years or so of 'facilitating' OS (Ha, Ha!) the simpler and tailored-to-the-intent/group and space 'always works'. > > I love making the signs, especially - always kind of a Zen thing, not knowing what's coming but knowing the folks are in for a life-changing experience. > > Peace, All - > Steve Cochran > Black Mountain NC > >> On Jan 30, 2025, at 4:08 PM, Peggy Holman via OSList <everyone@oslist.org> wrote: >> Before things begin… >> >> Making the signage - the principles and law, with butterflies and bumble bees — is part of my ritual. I remember Harrison talking about having the posters be home made sends a message anyone can do this. It doesn’t require slick production. >> >> I also make sure the chairs are in the best possible circle. I often find circles don’t make much sense to conference set-up staff so there will be squares or odd shaped circles. There’s a trick someone taught me for making perfect circles. I do this with groups of people sometimes: if you look to your left and right and stand just slightly behind the people (or chair) next to you, you end up with a beautiful circle. So I tweak the chair layout to be smooth. And then I walk the circle before anyone arrives. Somehow it grounds me. >> >> If I’m working with a team, we huddle for a few minutes and each speak to our aspirations for our time together. Then we take a few minutes to sort out any unspoken details on who is handling what set-up logistics. Then we do it! >> >> Following an open space, I often do a tonglen meditation <https://www.lionsroar.com/how-to-practice-tonglen-meditation/> for the participants. Breathing in any of their pain and suffering, breathing out well being for them. >> >> Thanks for the question Doug. >> >> Peggy >> >> >>> On Jan 28, 2025, at 9:42 AM, douglasgermann via OSList <everyone@oslist.org> wrote: >>> >>> Had not thought of this when I posted the question, and now that I focus: When the room is empty and the chairs set in a circle, I go around and offer an individual blessing on whomever might from time to time use each chair. They are individual to that chair: May you be happy; may you be healthy; may you find your words; may you be strong; may you be at ease; may you ask your question; may you get hints of answers. >>> >>> Personalizing softens me. >>> >>> :- Doug. >>> On Tuesday, January 28th, 2025 at 12:11 PM, Chris Corrigan via OSList <everyone@oslist.org> wrote: >>>> I have lots of little rituals, but one I always find myself doing when I am setting up the wall and ripping up dozens of little pieces of tape is to offer a little blessing as I put every piece of tape on the wall. “May this be a good session…may this be a good session…” >>>> >>>> Chris >>>> >>>>> On Jan 28, 2025, at 6:56 AM, Jeff Aitken via OSList <everyone@oslist.org> wrote: >>>>> >>>>> Hi Doug. I've always worked "by the book" - tho learned these basic forms from HHO before the books came out. >>>>> >>>>> The mindful setup of the physical spaces is an important "grounding" ritual for me. The paper and pens around the center of the main circle, and perhaps other central items as appropriate for the event. Each breakout space gets a semicircle of chairs to invite people in, along with pens and paper. >>>>> >>>>> Our friend Lisa Heft gifted me a smooth black stone to pass around at a closing circle, the most recent tool of that kind that I've used. >>>>> >>>>> Starting my own breakouts (when I'm not the event facilitator) with a go around, inviting us to speak our introductions and intentions, has a kind of ritual quality. >>>>> >>>>> And all can be adapted for work online. >>>>> >>>>> Personal preparation rituals include a good night's sleep, tho even without that, a naptime is available after the first breakouts have begun! >>>>> >>>>> Silent meditations, well before the event, are a personal practice preference. It feels appropriate to enter the day with that quality of mindful attention. >>>>> >>>>> How about you? >>>>> >>>>> Jeff >>>>> >>>>> >>>>> On Mon, Jan 27, 2025, 9:08 PM douglasgermann via OSList <everyone@oslist.org> wrote: >>>>>> What rituals do you like to use in OS? In opening, in the individual sessions you call or attend, in closing circles, or elsewhere? >>>>>> >>>>>> :- Doug. Germann >>>>>> South Bend, IN, USA >>>>>> >>>>>> OSList mailing list -- everyone@oslist.org >>>>>> To unsubscribe send an email to everyone-leave@oslist.org >>>>>> See the archives here: https://oslist.org/empathy/list/everyone.oslist.org >>>>> OSList mailing list -- everyone@oslist.org >>>>> To unsubscribe send an email to everyone-leave@oslist.org >>>>> See the archives here: https://oslist.org/empathy/list/everyone.oslist.org >>>> >>> >>> OSList mailing list -- everyone@oslist.org >>> To unsubscribe send an email to everyone-leave@oslist.org >>> See the archives here: https://oslist.org/empathy/list/everyone.oslist.org >> >> OSList mailing list -- everyone@oslist.org >> To unsubscribe send an email to everyone-leave@oslist.org >> See the archives here: https://oslist.org/empathy/list/everyone.oslist.org > OSList mailing list -- everyone@oslist.org > To unsubscribe send an email to everyone-leave@oslist.org > See the archives here: https://oslist.org/empathy/list/everyone.oslist.org
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Michael M Pannwitz
Sun, Feb 2, 2025 9:44 AM

Dear Slow,

wonder what "open space (of sorts)" might be/is.

Greetings from Berlin
mmp

Am 02.02.2025 um 01:51 schrieb John Abbe aka Slow via OSList:

This whole thread is gold, thank you! I'm about to offer a session in
an open space (of sorts) and just reading this helps set me on a good
flow into it.

Other than with the Center for Group Learning, it could be in
practicing Open Space that I've gotten the most clear learnings about
holding space, particularly for more than a few people at a time. (And
yet somehow, I never run out of things to learn!)

Life,
Slow

"If you don't like the news, go out and make some of your own."
    --Wes Nisker

On Thu, Jan 30, 2025, at 3:25 PM, Steve Cochran via OSList wrote:

Thanks, Peggy - your 'homemade' and simple but so meaningful rituals
really resonate with me. In my 35 years or so of 'facilitating' OS
(Ha, Ha!) the simpler and tailored-to-the-intent/group and space
'always works'.

I love making the signs, especially - always kind of a Zen thing, not
knowing what's coming but knowing the folks are in for a
life-changing experience.

Peace, All -
Steve Cochran
Black Mountain NC

On Jan 30, 2025, at 4:08 PM, Peggy Holman via OSList
everyone@oslist.org wrote:
Before things begin…

Making the signage - the principles and law, with butterflies and
bumble bees — is part of my ritual. I remember Harrison talking
about having the posters be home made sends a message anyone can do
this. It doesn’t require slick production.

I also make sure the chairs are in the best possible circle. I often
find circles don’t make much sense to conference set-up staff so
there will be squares or odd shaped circles. There’s a trick someone
taught me for making perfect circles. I do this with groups of
people sometimes: if you look to your left and right and stand just
slightly behind the people (or chair) next to you, you end up with a
beautiful circle. So I tweak the chair layout to be smooth. And then
I walk the circle before anyone arrives. Somehow it grounds me.

If I’m working with a team, we huddle for a few minutes and each
speak to our aspirations for our time together. Then we take a few
minutes to sort out any unspoken details on who is handling what
set-up logistics. Then we do it!

Following an open space, I often do a tonglen meditation
https://www.lionsroar.com/how-to-practice-tonglen-meditation/ for
the participants. Breathing in any of their pain and suffering,
breathing out well being for them.

Thanks for the question Doug.

Peggy

On Jan 28, 2025, at 9:42 AM, douglasgermann via OSList
everyone@oslist.org wrote:

Had not thought of this when I posted the question, and now that I
focus: When the room is empty and the chairs set in a circle, I go
around and offer an individual blessing on whomever might from time
to time use each chair. They are individual to that chair: May you
be happy; may you be healthy; may you find your words; may you be
strong; may you be at ease; may you ask your question; may you get
hints of answers.

Personalizing softens me.

:- Doug.
On Tuesday, January 28th, 2025 at 12:11 PM, Chris Corrigan via
OSList everyone@oslist.org wrote:

I have lots of little rituals, but one I always find myself doing
when I am setting up the wall and ripping up dozens of little
pieces of tape is to offer a little blessing as I put every piece
of tape on the wall.  “May this be a good session…may this be a
good session…”

Chris

On Jan 28, 2025, at 6:56 AM, Jeff Aitken via OSList
everyone@oslist.org wrote:

Hi Doug. I've always worked "by the book" - tho learned these
basic forms from HHO before the books came out.

The mindful setup of the physical spaces is an important
"grounding" ritual for me. The paper and pens around the center
of the main circle, and perhaps other central items as
appropriate for the event. Each breakout space gets a semicircle
of chairs to invite people in, along with pens and paper.

Our friend Lisa Heft gifted me a smooth black stone to pass
around at a closing circle, the most recent tool of that kind
that I've used.

Starting my own breakouts (when I'm not the event facilitator)
with a go around, inviting us to speak our introductions and
intentions, has a kind of ritual quality.

And all can be adapted for work online.

Personal preparation rituals include a good night's sleep, tho
even without that, a naptime is available after the first
breakouts have begun!

Silent meditations, well before the event, are a personal
practice preference. It feels appropriate to enter the day with
that quality of mindful attention.

How about you?

Jeff

On Mon, Jan 27, 2025, 9:08 PM douglasgermann via OSList
everyone@oslist.org wrote:

 What rituals do you like to use in OS? In opening, in the
 individual sessions you call or attend, in closing circles,
 or elsewhere?

 :- Doug. Germann
 South Bend, IN, USA

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Dear Slow, wonder what "open space (of sorts)" might be/is. Greetings from Berlin mmp Am 02.02.2025 um 01:51 schrieb John Abbe aka Slow via OSList: > This whole thread is gold, thank you! I'm about to offer a session in > an open space (of sorts) and just reading this helps set me on a good > flow into it. > > Other than with the Center for Group Learning, it could be in > practicing Open Space that I've gotten the most clear learnings about > holding space, particularly for more than a few people at a time. (And > yet somehow, I never run out of things to learn!) > > Life, > Slow > == > "If you don't like the news, go out and make some of your own." >     --Wes Nisker > > > On Thu, Jan 30, 2025, at 3:25 PM, Steve Cochran via OSList wrote: >> >> Thanks, Peggy - your 'homemade' and simple but so meaningful rituals >> really resonate with me. In my 35 years or so of 'facilitating' OS >> (Ha, Ha!) the simpler and tailored-to-the-intent/group and space >> 'always works'. >> >> I love making the signs, especially - always kind of a Zen thing, not >> knowing what's coming but knowing the folks are in for a >> life-changing experience. >> >> Peace, All - >> Steve Cochran >> Black Mountain NC >> >>> On Jan 30, 2025, at 4:08 PM, Peggy Holman via OSList >>> <everyone@oslist.org> wrote: >>> Before things begin… >>> >>> Making the signage - the principles and law, with butterflies and >>> bumble bees — is part of my ritual. I remember Harrison talking >>> about having the posters be home made sends a message anyone can do >>> this. It doesn’t require slick production. >>> >>> I also make sure the chairs are in the best possible circle. I often >>> find circles don’t make much sense to conference set-up staff so >>> there will be squares or odd shaped circles. There’s a trick someone >>> taught me for making perfect circles. I do this with groups of >>> people sometimes: if you look to your left and right and stand just >>> slightly behind the people (or chair) next to you, you end up with a >>> beautiful circle. So I tweak the chair layout to be smooth. And then >>> I walk the circle before anyone arrives. Somehow it grounds me. >>> >>> If I’m working with a team, we huddle for a few minutes and each >>> speak to our aspirations for our time together. Then we take a few >>> minutes to sort out any unspoken details on who is handling what >>> set-up logistics. Then we do it! >>> >>> Following an open space, I often do a tonglen meditation >>> <https://www.lionsroar.com/how-to-practice-tonglen-meditation/> for >>> the participants. Breathing in any of their pain and suffering, >>> breathing out well being for them. >>> >>> Thanks for the question Doug. >>> >>> Peggy >>> >>> >>>> On Jan 28, 2025, at 9:42 AM, douglasgermann via OSList >>>> <everyone@oslist.org> wrote: >>>> >>>> Had not thought of this when I posted the question, and now that I >>>> focus: When the room is empty and the chairs set in a circle, I go >>>> around and offer an individual blessing on whomever might from time >>>> to time use each chair. They are individual to that chair: May you >>>> be happy; may you be healthy; may you find your words; may you be >>>> strong; may you be at ease; may you ask your question; may you get >>>> hints of answers. >>>> >>>> Personalizing softens me. >>>> >>>> :- Doug. >>>> On Tuesday, January 28th, 2025 at 12:11 PM, Chris Corrigan via >>>> OSList <everyone@oslist.org> wrote: >>>>> I have lots of little rituals, but one I always find myself doing >>>>> when I am setting up the wall and ripping up dozens of little >>>>> pieces of tape is to offer a little blessing as I put every piece >>>>> of tape on the wall.  “May this be a good session…may this be a >>>>> good session…” >>>>> >>>>> Chris >>>>> >>>>>> On Jan 28, 2025, at 6:56 AM, Jeff Aitken via OSList >>>>>> <everyone@oslist.org> wrote: >>>>>> >>>>>> Hi Doug. I've always worked "by the book" - tho learned these >>>>>> basic forms from HHO before the books came out. >>>>>> >>>>>> The mindful setup of the physical spaces is an important >>>>>> "grounding" ritual for me. The paper and pens around the center >>>>>> of the main circle, and perhaps other central items as >>>>>> appropriate for the event. Each breakout space gets a semicircle >>>>>> of chairs to invite people in, along with pens and paper. >>>>>> >>>>>> Our friend Lisa Heft gifted me a smooth black stone to pass >>>>>> around at a closing circle, the most recent tool of that kind >>>>>> that I've used. >>>>>> >>>>>> Starting my own breakouts (when I'm not the event facilitator) >>>>>> with a go around, inviting us to speak our introductions and >>>>>> intentions, has a kind of ritual quality. >>>>>> >>>>>> And all can be adapted for work online. >>>>>> >>>>>> Personal preparation rituals include a good night's sleep, tho >>>>>> even without that, a naptime is available after the first >>>>>> breakouts have begun! >>>>>> >>>>>> Silent meditations, well before the event, are a personal >>>>>> practice preference. It feels appropriate to enter the day with >>>>>> that quality of mindful attention. >>>>>> >>>>>> How about you? >>>>>> >>>>>> Jeff >>>>>> >>>>>> >>>>>> On Mon, Jan 27, 2025, 9:08 PM douglasgermann via OSList >>>>>> <everyone@oslist.org> wrote: >>>>>> >>>>>> What rituals do you like to use in OS? In opening, in the >>>>>> individual sessions you call or attend, in closing circles, >>>>>> or elsewhere? >>>>>> >>>>>> :- Doug. 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