Sounds like a topic with passion, consider posting it for Thursday session in the Open Space Garden! https://openspace.qiqochat.com/gardens With appreciation for the wisdom shared in this thread. One aspect I might add is that by my non-doing as facilitator it is clear who has the responsibility for “whatever” to happen, once I’m done with my opening. With appreciation Thomas Från: Kathy Minardi via OSList <everyone@oslist.org> Skickat: den 8 december 2024 20:58 Till: Michael Herman <michael@michaelherman.com> Kopia: isaac a <isaac48@hotmail.com>; Bhavesh Patel <bhavmail@gmail.com>; Michael M Pannwitz via OSList <everyone@oslist.org> Ämne: [OSList] Re: Facilitators calling sessions. Syria needs Open Space to move safely forward! Sent from my iPhone On Dec 8, 2024, at 2:51 PM, Michael Herman via OSList <everyone@oslist.org<mailto:everyone@oslist.org>> wrote:  the thing about asking someone else to put up your topic, isaac, is that IF they care enough to put it up on their own, then you don't have to ask. and if they don't, then it's probably you worrying too much about the details of what goes up. slippery slope... because probably you'll wish other people posted their sessions differently. or wish someone different put up a specific topic. now your brain is very busy and not very spacious! if you're the only one who gets this topic in the whole room/org, then how is that conversation going to happen in any meaningful way, regardless of who posts it and tries to kick it off. if it's essential for you to do this, then as suggested already, maybe you're not the one to facilitate... OR you need at least one partner so you two can tag-team as facilitator while you each have a chance to participate as individuals. i'd also recommend revisiting the User's Guide, but also you might be interested in the topics covered (directly on this list and then edited together) in the User's Non-Guide, because some of what you're asking seems technical/practical and some more about the spirit of os that is addressed in teh non-guide. see the Shared Stories tab at openspaceworld.org<http://openspaceworld.org> for links to both. michael h -- Michael Herman Michael Herman Associates 312-280-7838 (mobile) MichaelHerman.com<http://MichaelHerman.com> OpenSpaceWorld.org<http://OpenSpaceWorld.org> On Sun, Dec 8, 2024 at 11:13 AM isaac a via OSList <everyone@oslist.org<mailto:everyone@oslist.org>> wrote: Thanks again Bhav. In this instance, there isn't an option of someone else to open space. I appreciate the "in the moment" insights! Whatever happens...e.g. if someone came up to me and said "aren't you going to post something?" (I'm sure this would more likely be from other insiders, colleagues.. etc., who know me other than the 'facilitator' role) IF that happened, then I'd check the temperature to see if it felt right... whatever happens... It's a really nuanced balance of different kinds of 'presences' and awarenesses of the process, and how the room is vibing. That's a real skill. Thank you. Isaac ________________________________ From: Bhavesh Patel <bhavmail@gmail.com<mailto:bhavmail@gmail.com>> Sent: 08 December 2024 17:10 To: isaac a <isaac48@hotmail.com<mailto:isaac48@hotmail.com>> Cc: Michael M Pannwitz via OSList <everyone@oslist.org<mailto:everyone@oslist.org>> Subject: Re: [OSList] Re: Facilitators calling sessions. Continuing in purple below... and please do not feel the need to answer any of my questions! On Sun, 8 Dec 2024 at 18:15, isaac a <isaac48@hotmail.com<mailto:isaac48@hotmail.com>> wrote: Thanks so much Bav. I clearly remember your microphone stand off story! Very skillfully handled! In this context, I'm an insider, but I understand the dynamics of the facilitator being perceived as someone with power. Although I personally don't think I'd be adversely affected by a facilitator calling a session. Have you explored the option of someone else opening space? Or it's not really feasible... So, in the same way you'd ask someone to facilitate so that you can be in sessions, do you think it's ok to ask/negotiate with someone to call a session on a particularly important question that might not see the light of day? Obviously, they'd have to have the same passion as you. Is this a form of "treading lightly"? You will know in the moment whether: * Your topic goes up without you needing to name it yourself! * You ask someone else to post the topic who you know is passionate about the topic and is not doing it just for you. * You decide to post-it yourself maybe nearer the end of the agenda creation moment. * You realise your topic is not needed or the vibe is that you should not post-it. * You need to somehow make clear your role if you are joining discussions, if you are posting topics, etc. * Something else totally unexpected will happen, be prepared to be surprised... Maybe what I could do is post something on a bulletin board, with my contact details, for a few people to connect with and meet at another time to self organise some kind of focus block, group work, and help each other work through things? If I did that, I feel like that might be something more for the closing circle, and where you might take off your 'facilitator hat'. I would be cautious of posting that during the agenda creation moment, and then suddenly others start doing that, because people often do what you do, not what you say! Here, as an 'insider', (library services) I/we can offer free venue space to others to work on their issues. Now that I've said all that, it sounds more like Action Learning, and I guess that's ok. Thanks! Isaac P S: I took almost always find myself sweeping, litter collecting, cleaning tables, washing cups and refilling all sorts! ________________________________ From: Bhavesh Patel <bhavmail@gmail.com<mailto:bhavmail@gmail.com>> Sent: 08 December 2024 14:23 To: isaac a <isaac48@hotmail.com<mailto:isaac48@hotmail.com>> Cc: Michael M Pannwitz via OSList <everyone@oslist.org<mailto:everyone@oslist.org>> Subject: Re: [OSList] Re: Facilitators calling sessions. Some random Sunday thoughts below in purple... On Sun, 8 Dec 2024 at 13:11, isaac a via OSList <everyone@oslist.org<mailto:everyone@oslist.org>> wrote: I will be back in the UK soon and look forward to catching up Isaac! Thanks Michael. It took me a few attempts to try and fully understand what you mean. My question now is what exactly is a "Space Invader", and how does a space invader behave that's detrimental? For me a space invader is someone who is acting in a way that is closing down space for others, stoping them making choices, trying to exert their control on others. E.g. Once in an OST setting on the morning of day 02, a participant got up, took the mic, said we can stop this process now because they have found how all of this is connected, and now they will tell all of us what the new plan is... so I as the facilitator said that sounds like a great session, why don't you post it, and maybe everyone will join you, or maybe there will be other sessions, the person said no, everyone now has to follow his plan, and so there we were both holding the mic looking at each other... I'm imagining that if a facilitator went around somehow interfering in other people's sessions and trying to control and direct proceedings and outcomes, then that would clearly be 'invading' space. However, if a facilitator called their own session and had their own space, how is that invading? I think I would echo what everyone else said, it's very contextual. When I am an outside facilitator, then I would never post a session, it's not my 'business'! When I am an insider, my general rule is still not to, but maybe there are exceptions, and I would tread very lightly and quietly to make sure my perceived power as a facilitator does not get in the way as much as that is possible. I have also had a few cases where I asked someone else to facilitate, because I really wanted to get in there! I understand the risk of not being fully present, but isn't that most important for when the facilitator is facilitating, i.e. during opening and closing circles, and not so much during the breakout sessions, especially if in OS the facilitator is 'allowed' to disappear and even put their feet up. That's an interesting one, whether to go for a nap or stick around. I actually enjoy cleaning the coffee cups, and sometimes participants come to me with all sorts of requests which I am happy to give back to them! Sometimes the client wants to hang out and check-in, sometimes just being there with them can support them if they are a bit anxious. So, is a session called by a facilitator in a far off corner or in a separate room not essentially disappearing? Does that exist in OST, a centre, edges, near, far? What's the difference and more importantly, what's the actual crux? What exactly is it that makes it matter or not. I think the crux is 'who are you in that particular OST beyond being the facilitator? Anybody, nobody, somebody, everybody, a body!!!' Many thanks. Isaac ________________________________ From: Michael M Pannwitz <mmpannwitz@posteo.de<mailto:mmpannwitz@posteo.de>> Sent: 06 December 2024 17:30 To: isaac a <isaac48@hotmail.com<mailto:isaac48@hotmail.com>> Subject: Re: [OSList] Facilitators calling sessions. Facilitators that turn into space invadors can not hold time and space for the unfolding of the forces of selforganization, and are not able to even approach the simple but tough requirement to be fully present and at the same time be invisible. Following this, your belief that facilitators shouldn't call sessions is not only your belief. And don't forget, we facilitators get paid for our intervention to do nothing. Greetings from Berlin mmp Am 06.12.2024 um 18:00 schrieb isaac a via OSList: Hi all, I seem to have the belief that facilitators shouldn't call sessions. What's the OS etiquette around this, and why? I can only think that it's either; to have a separation of the facilitator's 'leader' role, from the attendees' non-hierarchical status (in the spirit of OS), or by not taking up potentially valuable breakout sessions, it's to leave more opportunities for attendees to be able to have sessions. I'd love to hear your views on this. Thank you! 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