I got a message from Ethelyn Owen, Harrison’s widow, with this link from the New York Times. She said check out #5. https://www.nytimes.com/2026/09/30/briefing/30-the-good-list-keanu-stowaway.html?unlocked_article_code=1.F1E.pz-6.8CAMf5AwxlPv&smid=em-share The Good List: 6 Things to Add Delight to Your Day (Gift Article) nytimes.com The site doesn’t make it easy to get to the story if you’re not a subscriber so I’ve copied the relevant section below. Harrison used to talk of reaching a time when OST was just the way people operated. Through this article, it looks like a bit of the magic made it into the mainstream. I believe we each continue to support that evolution with every space we open, small or large. Peggy 5. How to silence the doubts In “Some Assembly Required: A Journal of My Son’s First Son <https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/305113/some-assembly-required-by-anne-lamott-with-sam-lamott/>,” the writer Anne Lamott surveys the scene of her family doting on her new grandson at the funeral of her beloved uncle Millard: I was reminded of the Four Immutable Laws of the Spirit: Whoever is present are the right people. Whenever it begins is the right time. Whatever happens is the only thing that could have happened. And when it’s over, it’s over. Each one of these “laws,” originally <http://elementaleducation.com/wp-content/uploads/temp/OpenSpaceTechnology--UsersGuide.pdf> coined by the organizational consultant Harrison Owen, seems worth internalizing as a means of quieting our constantly harping minds that tend to insist that everything is wrong — what’s happening, when it’s happening, whom it’s happening to or with. While things may not be perfect, they are, more often than not, pretty much OK. _________________________________ Peggy Holman peggy@peggyholman.com Bellevue, WA 98006 206-948-0432 www.peggyholman.com Enjoy the award winning Engaging Emergence: Turning Upheaval into Opportunity <https://peggyholman.com/papers/engaging-emergence/> "An angel told me that the only way to step into the fire and not get burnt, is to become the fire". -- Drew Dellinger

Anne Lamott’s statement was puzzling (and slightly disappointing) in that she was reminded of the “Four Immutable Laws of the Spirit” - using proper nouns as if those “laws” were named by someone other than Harrison. I wonder who introduced them to her in that way. Thankfully the author of the NYT article gave attribution to Harrison. Lamott’s disrespect is most definitely outweighed by the naming of the principles and It’s definitely uplifting to see the principles popularized in such a widely-read publication. On Sat, Oct 3, 2026 at 1:58 PM Peggy Holman via OSList <everyone@oslist.org> wrote: > I got a message from Ethelyn Owen, Harrison’s widow, with this link from > the New York Times. She said check out #5. > [image: 30-the-good-list-nl-lede-videoSixteenByNine3000.jpg] > > The Good List: 6 Things to Add Delight to Your Day (Gift Article) > <https://www.nytimes.com/2026/09/30/briefing/30-the-good-list-keanu-stowaway.html?unlocked_article_code=1.F1E.pz-6.8CAMf5AwxlPv&smid=em-share> > nytimes.com > <https://www.nytimes.com/2026/09/30/briefing/30-the-good-list-keanu-stowaway.html?unlocked_article_code=1.F1E.pz-6.8CAMf5AwxlPv&smid=em-share> > > <https://www.nytimes.com/2026/09/30/briefing/30-the-good-list-keanu-stowaway.html?unlocked_article_code=1.F1E.pz-6.8CAMf5AwxlPv&smid=em-share> > > > The site doesn’t make it easy to get to the story if you’re not a > subscriber so I’ve copied the relevant section below. > > Harrison used to talk of reaching a time when OST was just the way people > operated. Through this article, it looks like a bit of the magic made it > into the mainstream. I believe we each continue to support that evolution > with every space we open, small or large. > > Peggy > 5.How to silence the doubts > > In “Some Assembly Required: A Journal of My Son’s First Son > <https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/305113/some-assembly-required-by-anne-lamott-with-sam-lamott/>,” > the writer Anne Lamott surveys the scene of her family doting on her new > grandson at the funeral of her beloved uncle Millard: > > I was reminded of the Four Immutable Laws of the Spirit: Whoever is > present are the right people. Whenever it begins is the right time. > Whatever happens is the only thing that could have happened. And when it’s > over, it’s over. > > Each one of these “laws,” originally > <http://elementaleducation.com/wp-content/uploads/temp/OpenSpaceTechnology--UsersGuide.pdf> coined > by the organizational consultant Harrison Owen, seems worth internalizing > as a means of quieting our constantly harping minds that tend to insist > that everything is wrong — what’s happening, when it’s happening, whom it’s > happening to or with. While things may not be perfect, they are, more often > than not, pretty much OK. > > > > > > > _________________________________ > Peggy Holman > peggy@peggyholman.com > > Bellevue, WA 98006 > 206-948-0432 > www.peggyholman.com > > Enjoy the award winning Engaging Emergence: Turning Upheaval > into Opportunity <https://peggyholman.com/papers/engaging-emergence/> > > "An angel told me that the only way to step into the fire and not get > burnt, is to become > the fire". > -- Drew Dellinger > > > > > > > > > > > > > > OSList mailing list -- everyone@oslist.org > To unsubscribe send an email to everyone-leave@oslist.org > See the archives here: https://oslist.org/empathy/list/everyone.oslist.org

I am detecting some possible confusion between the four principles of OST and the “Four Immutable Laws of Spirit” attributed to Angeles Arrien. I believe those (the latter) are different statements. Perhaps something along the lines of: *Show up and choose to be fully present.Pay attention to what has heart and meaning.Tell the truth without blame or judgment.Be open to outcome, not attached to outcome.* Isn't language fascinating? John *John Warinner*(541) 815-4103 johnwarinner@gmail.com <johnw@watersolving.com> On Sat, Oct 3, 2026 at 11:36 AM Rijon Erickson via OSList < everyone@oslist.org> wrote: > Anne Lamott’s statement was puzzling (and slightly disappointing) in that > she was reminded of the “Four Immutable Laws of the Spirit” - using > proper nouns as if those “laws” were named by someone other than Harrison. > I wonder who introduced them to her in that way. > > Thankfully the author of the NYT article gave attribution to Harrison. > > Lamott’s disrespect is most definitely outweighed by the naming of the > principles and It’s definitely uplifting to see the principles popularized > in such a widely-read publication. > > > > On Sat, Oct 3, 2026 at 1:58 PM Peggy Holman via OSList < > everyone@oslist.org> wrote: > >> I got a message from Ethelyn Owen, Harrison’s widow, with this link from >> the New York Times. She said check out #5. >> [image: 30-the-good-list-nl-lede-videoSixteenByNine3000.jpg] >> >> The Good List: 6 Things to Add Delight to Your Day (Gift Article) >> <https://www.nytimes.com/2026/09/30/briefing/30-the-good-list-keanu-stowaway.html?unlocked_article_code=1.F1E.pz-6.8CAMf5AwxlPv&smid=em-share> >> nytimes.com >> <https://www.nytimes.com/2026/09/30/briefing/30-the-good-list-keanu-stowaway.html?unlocked_article_code=1.F1E.pz-6.8CAMf5AwxlPv&smid=em-share> >> >> <https://www.nytimes.com/2026/09/30/briefing/30-the-good-list-keanu-stowaway.html?unlocked_article_code=1.F1E.pz-6.8CAMf5AwxlPv&smid=em-share> >> >> >> The site doesn’t make it easy to get to the story if you’re not a >> subscriber so I’ve copied the relevant section below. >> >> Harrison used to talk of reaching a time when OST was just the way people >> operated. Through this article, it looks like a bit of the magic made it >> into the mainstream. I believe we each continue to support that evolution >> with every space we open, small or large. >> >> Peggy >> 5.How to silence the doubts >> >> In “Some Assembly Required: A Journal of My Son’s First Son >> <https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/305113/some-assembly-required-by-anne-lamott-with-sam-lamott/>,” >> the writer Anne Lamott surveys the scene of her family doting on her new >> grandson at the funeral of her beloved uncle Millard: >> >> I was reminded of the Four Immutable Laws of the Spirit: Whoever is >> present are the right people. Whenever it begins is the right time. >> Whatever happens is the only thing that could have happened. And when it’s >> over, it’s over. >> >> Each one of these “laws,” originally >> <http://elementaleducation.com/wp-content/uploads/temp/OpenSpaceTechnology--UsersGuide.pdf> coined >> by the organizational consultant Harrison Owen, seems worth internalizing >> as a means of quieting our constantly harping minds that tend to insist >> that everything is wrong — what’s happening, when it’s happening, whom it’s >> happening to or with. While things may not be perfect, they are, more often >> than not, pretty much OK. >> >> >> >> >> >> >> _________________________________ >> Peggy Holman >> peggy@peggyholman.com >> >> Bellevue, WA 98006 >> 206-948-0432 <(206)%20948-0432> >> www.peggyholman.com >> >> Enjoy the award winning Engaging Emergence: Turning Upheaval >> into Opportunity <https://peggyholman.com/papers/engaging-emergence/> >> >> "An angel told me that the only way to step into the fire and not get >> burnt, is to become >> the fire". >> -- Drew Dellinger >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> OSList mailing list -- everyone@oslist.org >> To unsubscribe send an email to everyone-leave@oslist.org >> See the archives here: >> https://oslist.org/empathy/list/everyone.oslist.org > > OSList mailing list -- everyone@oslist.org > To unsubscribe send an email to everyone-leave@oslist.org > See the archives here: https://oslist.org/empathy/list/everyone.oslist.org

Maybe similar underlying spirit... *Show up and choose to be fully present. - WHOEVER COMES...Pay attention to what has heart and meaning. - WHENEVER IT STARTS...Tell the truth without blame or judgment. - WHATEVER HAPPENS...Be open to outcome, not attached to outcome. - WHEN IT'S OVER...* On Sun, 4 Oct 2026 at 08:56, Romy Shovelton via OSList <everyone@oslist.org> wrote: > How wonderful that these ways of being are appreciated so beautifully 😀 > > Thanks to Ethelyn for sending this to us . > > 😊 > > Romy Shovelton > Cae Ceirch > Brithdir > Dolgellau > Gwynedd > LL40 2SB > +44 7767 370739 <07767%20370739> > > > Sent from my iPhone > > On 3 Oct 2026, at 21:19, John Warinner via OSList <everyone@oslist.org> > wrote: > >  > I am detecting some possible confusion between the four principles of OST > and the “Four Immutable Laws of Spirit” attributed to Angeles Arrien. > > I believe those (the latter) are different statements. > > Perhaps something along the lines of: > > > > > *Show up and choose to be fully present.Pay attention to what has heart > and meaning.Tell the truth without blame or judgment.Be open to outcome, > not attached to outcome.* > > Isn't language fascinating? > John > > > *John Warinner*(541) 815-4103 > johnwarinner@gmail.com <johnw@watersolving.com> > > > On Sat, Oct 3, 2026 at 11:36 AM Rijon Erickson via OSList < > everyone@oslist.org> wrote: > >> Anne Lamott’s statement was puzzling (and slightly disappointing) in that >> she was reminded of the “Four Immutable Laws of the Spirit” - using >> proper nouns as if those “laws” were named by someone other than Harrison. >> I wonder who introduced them to her in that way. >> >> Thankfully the author of the NYT article gave attribution to Harrison. >> >> Lamott’s disrespect is most definitely outweighed by the naming of the >> principles and It’s definitely uplifting to see the principles popularized >> in such a widely-read publication. >> >> >> >> On Sat, Oct 3, 2026 at 1:58 PM Peggy Holman via OSList < >> everyone@oslist.org> wrote: >> >>> I got a message from Ethelyn Owen, Harrison’s widow, with this link from >>> the New York Times. She said check out #5. >>> <30-the-good-list-nl-lede-videoSixteenByNine3000.jpg> >>> The Good List: 6 Things to Add Delight to Your Day (Gift Article) >>> <https://www.nytimes.com/2026/09/30/briefing/30-the-good-list-keanu-stowaway.html?unlocked_article_code=1.F1E.pz-6.8CAMf5AwxlPv&smid=em-share> >>> nytimes.com >>> <https://www.nytimes.com/2026/09/30/briefing/30-the-good-list-keanu-stowaway.html?unlocked_article_code=1.F1E.pz-6.8CAMf5AwxlPv&smid=em-share> >>> >>> <https://www.nytimes.com/2026/09/30/briefing/30-the-good-list-keanu-stowaway.html?unlocked_article_code=1.F1E.pz-6.8CAMf5AwxlPv&smid=em-share> >>> >>> >>> The site doesn’t make it easy to get to the story if you’re not a >>> subscriber so I’ve copied the relevant section below. >>> >>> Harrison used to talk of reaching a time when OST was just the way >>> people operated. Through this article, it looks like a bit of the magic >>> made it into the mainstream. I believe we each continue to support that >>> evolution with every space we open, small or large. >>> >>> Peggy >>> 5.How to silence the doubts >>> >>> In “Some Assembly Required: A Journal of My Son’s First Son >>> <https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/305113/some-assembly-required-by-anne-lamott-with-sam-lamott/>,” >>> the writer Anne Lamott surveys the scene of her family doting on her new >>> grandson at the funeral of her beloved uncle Millard: >>> >>> I was reminded of the Four Immutable Laws of the Spirit: Whoever is >>> present are the right people. Whenever it begins is the right time. >>> Whatever happens is the only thing that could have happened. And when it’s >>> over, it’s over. >>> >>> Each one of these “laws,” originally >>> <http://elementaleducation.com/wp-content/uploads/temp/OpenSpaceTechnology--UsersGuide.pdf> coined >>> by the organizational consultant Harrison Owen, seems worth internalizing >>> as a means of quieting our constantly harping minds that tend to insist >>> that everything is wrong — what’s happening, when it’s happening, whom it’s >>> happening to or with. While things may not be perfect, they are, more often >>> than not, pretty much OK. >>> >>> >>> >>> >>> >>> >>> _________________________________ >>> Peggy Holman >>> peggy@peggyholman.com >>> >>> Bellevue, WA 98006 >>> 206-948-0432 <(206)%20948-0432> >>> www.peggyholman.com >>> >>> Enjoy the award winning Engaging Emergence: Turning Upheaval >>> into Opportunity <https://peggyholman.com/papers/engaging-emergence/> >>> >>> "An angel told me that the only way to step into the fire and not get >>> burnt, is to become >>> the fire". >>> -- Drew Dellinger >>> >>> >>> >>> >>> >>> >>> >>> >>> >>> >>> >>> >>> >>> OSList mailing list -- everyone@oslist.org >>> To unsubscribe send an email to everyone-leave@oslist.org >>> See the archives here: >>> https://oslist.org/empathy/list/everyone.oslist.org >> >> OSList mailing list -- everyone@oslist.org >> To unsubscribe send an email to everyone-leave@oslist.org >> See the archives here: >> https://oslist.org/empathy/list/everyone.oslist.org > > OSList mailing list -- everyone@oslist.org > To unsubscribe send an email to everyone-leave@oslist.org > See the archives here: https://oslist.org/empathy/list/everyone.oslist.org > > OSList mailing list -- everyone@oslist.org > To unsubscribe send an email to everyone-leave@oslist.org > See the archives here: https://oslist.org/empathy/list/everyone.oslist.org

This comes around once in a while. I wrote this the last time they popped up in 2024. https://www.chriscorrigan.com/parkinglot/the-shaman-is-actually-harrison-owen/ Harrison met the news with his usual self-deprecating humour. Chris. ____ CHRIS CORRIGAN Blog and resources: http://www.chriscorrigan.com Harvest Moon Consultants: https://www.harvestmoonconsultants.com Upcoming events and workshops and online courses: https://www.chriscorrigan.com/parkinglot/events/ Located on Nex̱wlélex̱wm (Bowen Island), Sḵwx̱wú7mesh-ulh territory, On Sun, Oct 4, 2026 at 4:42 AM Bhavesh Patel via OSList <everyone@oslist.org> wrote: > Maybe similar underlying spirit... > > > > > *Show up and choose to be fully present. - WHOEVER COMES...Pay attention > to what has heart and meaning. - WHENEVER IT STARTS...Tell the truth > without blame or judgment. - WHATEVER HAPPENS...Be open to outcome, not > attached to outcome. - WHEN IT'S OVER...* > > > > On Sun, 4 Oct 2026 at 08:56, Romy Shovelton via OSList < > everyone@oslist.org> wrote: > >> How wonderful that these ways of being are appreciated so beautifully 😀 >> >> Thanks to Ethelyn for sending this to us . >> >> 😊 >> >> Romy Shovelton >> Cae Ceirch >> Brithdir >> Dolgellau >> Gwynedd >> LL40 2SB >> +44 7767 370739 <07767%20370739> >> >> >> Sent from my iPhone >> >> On 3 Oct 2026, at 21:19, John Warinner via OSList <everyone@oslist.org> >> wrote: >> >>  >> I am detecting some possible confusion between the four principles of OST >> and the “Four Immutable Laws of Spirit” attributed to Angeles Arrien. >> >> I believe those (the latter) are different statements. >> >> Perhaps something along the lines of: >> >> >> >> >> *Show up and choose to be fully present.Pay attention to what has heart >> and meaning.Tell the truth without blame or judgment.Be open to outcome, >> not attached to outcome.* >> >> Isn't language fascinating? >> John >> >> >> *John Warinner*(541) 815-4103 >> johnwarinner@gmail.com <johnw@watersolving.com> >> >> >> On Sat, Oct 3, 2026 at 11:36 AM Rijon Erickson via OSList < >> everyone@oslist.org> wrote: >> >>> Anne Lamott’s statement was puzzling (and slightly disappointing) in >>> that she was reminded of the “Four Immutable Laws of the Spirit” - >>> using proper nouns as if those “laws” were named by someone other than >>> Harrison. I wonder who introduced them to her in that way. >>> >>> Thankfully the author of the NYT article gave attribution to Harrison. >>> >>> Lamott’s disrespect is most definitely outweighed by the naming of the >>> principles and It’s definitely uplifting to see the principles popularized >>> in such a widely-read publication. >>> >>> >>> >>> On Sat, Oct 3, 2026 at 1:58 PM Peggy Holman via OSList < >>> everyone@oslist.org> wrote: >>> >>>> I got a message from Ethelyn Owen, Harrison’s widow, with this link >>>> from the New York Times. She said check out #5. >>>> <30-the-good-list-nl-lede-videoSixteenByNine3000.jpg> >>>> The Good List: 6 Things to Add Delight to Your Day (Gift Article) >>>> <https://www.nytimes.com/2026/09/30/briefing/30-the-good-list-keanu-stowaway.html?unlocked_article_code=1.F1E.pz-6.8CAMf5AwxlPv&smid=em-share> >>>> nytimes.com >>>> <https://www.nytimes.com/2026/09/30/briefing/30-the-good-list-keanu-stowaway.html?unlocked_article_code=1.F1E.pz-6.8CAMf5AwxlPv&smid=em-share> >>>> >>>> <https://www.nytimes.com/2026/09/30/briefing/30-the-good-list-keanu-stowaway.html?unlocked_article_code=1.F1E.pz-6.8CAMf5AwxlPv&smid=em-share> >>>> >>>> >>>> The site doesn’t make it easy to get to the story if you’re not a >>>> subscriber so I’ve copied the relevant section below. >>>> >>>> Harrison used to talk of reaching a time when OST was just the way >>>> people operated. Through this article, it looks like a bit of the magic >>>> made it into the mainstream. I believe we each continue to support that >>>> evolution with every space we open, small or large. >>>> >>>> Peggy >>>> 5.How to silence the doubts >>>> >>>> In “Some Assembly Required: A Journal of My Son’s First Son >>>> <https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/305113/some-assembly-required-by-anne-lamott-with-sam-lamott/>,” >>>> the writer Anne Lamott surveys the scene of her family doting on her new >>>> grandson at the funeral of her beloved uncle Millard: >>>> >>>> I was reminded of the Four Immutable Laws of the Spirit: Whoever is >>>> present are the right people. Whenever it begins is the right time. >>>> Whatever happens is the only thing that could have happened. And when it’s >>>> over, it’s over. >>>> >>>> Each one of these “laws,” originally >>>> <http://elementaleducation.com/wp-content/uploads/temp/OpenSpaceTechnology--UsersGuide.pdf> coined >>>> by the organizational consultant Harrison Owen, seems worth internalizing >>>> as a means of quieting our constantly harping minds that tend to insist >>>> that everything is wrong — what’s happening, when it’s happening, whom it’s >>>> happening to or with. While things may not be perfect, they are, more often >>>> than not, pretty much OK. >>>> >>>> >>>> >>>> >>>> >>>> >>>> _________________________________ >>>> Peggy Holman >>>> peggy@peggyholman.com >>>> >>>> Bellevue, WA 98006 >>>> 206-948-0432 <(206)%20948-0432> >>>> www.peggyholman.com >>>> >>>> Enjoy the award winning Engaging Emergence: Turning Upheaval >>>> into Opportunity <https://peggyholman.com/papers/engaging-emergence/> >>>> >>>> "An angel told me that the only way to step into the fire and not get >>>> burnt, is to become >>>> the fire". >>>> -- Drew Dellinger >>>> >>>> >>>> >>>> >>>> >>>> >>>> >>>> >>>> >>>> >>>> >>>> >>>> >>>> OSList mailing list -- everyone@oslist.org >>>> To unsubscribe send an email to everyone-leave@oslist.org >>>> See the archives here: >>>> https://oslist.org/empathy/list/everyone.oslist.org >>> >>> OSList mailing list -- everyone@oslist.org >>> To unsubscribe send an email to everyone-leave@oslist.org >>> See the archives here: >>> https://oslist.org/empathy/list/everyone.oslist.org >> >> OSList mailing list -- everyone@oslist.org >> To unsubscribe send an email to everyone-leave@oslist.org >> See the archives here: >> https://oslist.org/empathy/list/everyone.oslist.org >> >> OSList mailing list -- everyone@oslist.org >> To unsubscribe send an email to everyone-leave@oslist.org >> See the archives here: >> https://oslist.org/empathy/list/everyone.oslist.org > > OSList mailing list -- everyone@oslist.org > To unsubscribe send an email to everyone-leave@oslist.org > See the archives here: https://oslist.org/empathy/list/everyone.oslist.org

Harrison actually mentions Angeles Arrien’s 4-Fold Way in a shortened form in Open Space Technology: A User’s Guide. It's on page 60 of the 3rd Edition and page 48 in the original edition. Oddly, Harrison splits the first statement into two and misses the second entirely. Show up Be present Tell the truth Let it all go On a different note, I had a conversation with Angie once and asked her about a reframing I proposed for the third statement: Tell the truth with compassion. She thought about it for a moment and said it worked. I have a bias towards it because it speaks to what TO do rather than what NOT to do. Peggy > On Oct 4, 2026, at 1:41 AM, Bhavesh Patel via OSList <everyone@oslist.org> wrote: > > Maybe similar underlying spirit... > > Show up and choose to be fully present. - WHOEVER COMES... > Pay attention to what has heart and meaning. - WHENEVER IT STARTS... > Tell the truth without blame or judgment. - WHATEVER HAPPENS... > Be open to outcome, not attached to outcome. - WHEN IT'S OVER... > > > > On Sun, 4 Oct 2026 at 08:56, Romy Shovelton via OSList <everyone@oslist.org <mailto:everyone@oslist.org>> wrote: >> How wonderful that these ways of being are appreciated so beautifully 😀 >> >> Thanks to Ethelyn for sending this to us . >> >> 😊 >> >> Romy Shovelton >> Cae Ceirch >> Brithdir >> Dolgellau >> Gwynedd >> LL40 2SB >> +44 7767 370739 <tel:07767%20370739> >> >> >> Sent from my iPhone >> >>> On 3 Oct 2026, at 21:19, John Warinner via OSList <everyone@oslist.org <mailto:everyone@oslist.org>> wrote: >>> >>>  >>> I am detecting some possible confusion between the four principles of OST and the “Four Immutable Laws of Spirit” attributed to Angeles Arrien. >>> >>> I believe those (the latter) are different statements. >>> >>> Perhaps something along the lines of: >>> >>> Show up and choose to be fully present. >>> Pay attention to what has heart and meaning. >>> Tell the truth without blame or judgment. >>> Be open to outcome, not attached to outcome. >>> >>> Isn't language fascinating? >>> John >>> >>> John Warinner >>> (541) 815-4103 >>> johnwarinner@gmail.com <> <mailto:johnw@watersolving.com> >>> >>> On Sat, Oct 3, 2026 at 11:36 AM Rijon Erickson via OSList <everyone@oslist.org <mailto:everyone@oslist.org>> wrote: >>>> Anne Lamott’s statement was puzzling (and slightly disappointing) in that she was reminded of the “Four Immutable Laws of the Spirit” - using proper nouns as if those “laws” were named by someone other than Harrison. I wonder who introduced them to her in that way. >>>> >>>> Thankfully the author of the NYT article gave attribution to Harrison. >>>> >>>> Lamott’s disrespect is most definitely outweighed by the naming of the principles and It’s definitely uplifting to see the principles popularized in such a widely-read publication. >>>> >>>> >>>> >>>> On Sat, Oct 3, 2026 at 1:58 PM Peggy Holman via OSList <everyone@oslist.org <mailto:everyone@oslist.org>> wrote: >>>>> I got a message from Ethelyn Owen, Harrison’s widow, with this link from the New York Times. She said check out #5. >>>>> <30-the-good-list-nl-lede-videoSixteenByNine3000.jpg> >>>>> The Good List: 6 Things to Add Delight to Your Day (Gift Article) >>>>> nytimes.com >>>>> <https://www.nytimes.com/2026/09/30/briefing/30-the-good-list-keanu-stowaway.html?unlocked_article_code=1.F1E.pz-6.8CAMf5AwxlPv&smid=em-share>The Good List: 6 Things to Add Delight to Your Day (Gift Article) <https://www.nytimes.com/2026/09/30/briefing/30-the-good-list-keanu-stowaway.html?unlocked_article_code=1.F1E.pz-6.8CAMf5AwxlPv&smid=em-share> >>>>> nytimes.com <https://www.nytimes.com/2026/09/30/briefing/30-the-good-list-keanu-stowaway.html?unlocked_article_code=1.F1E.pz-6.8CAMf5AwxlPv&smid=em-share> >>>>> >>>>> The site doesn’t make it easy to get to the story if you’re not a subscriber so I’ve copied the relevant section below. >>>>> >>>>> Harrison used to talk of reaching a time when OST was just the way people operated. Through this article, it looks like a bit of the magic made it into the mainstream. I believe we each continue to support that evolution with every space we open, small or large. >>>>> >>>>> Peggy >>>>> 5. >>>>> >>>>> How to silence the doubts >>>>> >>>>> In “Some Assembly Required: A Journal of My Son’s First Son <https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/305113/some-assembly-required-by-anne-lamott-with-sam-lamott/>,” the writer Anne Lamott surveys the scene of her family doting on her new grandson at the funeral of her beloved uncle Millard: >>>>> I was reminded of the Four Immutable Laws of the Spirit: Whoever is present are the right people. Whenever it begins is the right time. Whatever happens is the only thing that could have happened. And when it’s over, it’s over. >>>>> >>>>> Each one of these “laws,” originally <http://elementaleducation.com/wp-content/uploads/temp/OpenSpaceTechnology--UsersGuide.pdf> coined by the organizational consultant Harrison Owen, seems worth internalizing as a means of quieting our constantly harping minds that tend to insist that everything is wrong — what’s happening, when it’s happening, whom it’s happening to or with. While things may not be perfect, they are, more often than not, pretty much OK. >>>>> >>>>> >>>>> >>>>> >>>>> >>>>> _________________________________ >>>>> Peggy Holman >>>>> peggy@peggyholman.com <mailto:peggy@peggyholman.com> >>>>> >>>>> Bellevue, WA 98006 >>>>> 206-948-0432 <tel:(206)%20948-0432> >>>>> www.peggyholman.com <http://www.peggyholman.com/> >>>>> >>>>> Enjoy the award winning Engaging Emergence: Turning Upheaval into Opportunity <https://peggyholman.com/papers/engaging-emergence/> >>>>> >>>>> "An angel told me that the only way to step into the fire and not get burnt, is to become >>>>> the fire". >>>>> -- Drew Dellinger >>>>> >>>>> >>>>> >>>>> >>>>> >>>>> >>>>> >>>>> >>>>> >>>>> >>>>> >>>>> >>>>> >>>>> OSList mailing list -- everyone@oslist.org <mailto:everyone@oslist.org> >>>>> To unsubscribe send an email to everyone-leave@oslist.org <mailto:everyone-leave@oslist.org> >>>>> See the archives here: https://oslist.org/empathy/list/everyone.oslist.org >>>> OSList mailing list -- everyone@oslist.org <mailto:everyone@oslist.org> >>>> To unsubscribe send an email to everyone-leave@oslist.org <mailto:everyone-leave@oslist.org> >>>> See the archives here: https://oslist.org/empathy/list/everyone.oslist.org >>> OSList mailing list -- everyone@oslist.org <mailto:everyone@oslist.org> >>> To unsubscribe send an email to everyone-leave@oslist.org <mailto:everyone-leave@oslist.org> >>> See the archives here: https://oslist.org/empathy/list/everyone.oslist.org >> OSList mailing list -- everyone@oslist.org <mailto:everyone@oslist.org> >> To unsubscribe send an email to everyone-leave@oslist.org <mailto:everyone-leave@oslist.org> >> See the archives here: https://oslist.org/empathy/list/everyone.oslist.org > OSList mailing list -- everyone@oslist.org > To unsubscribe send an email to everyone-leave@oslist.org > See the archives here: https://oslist.org/empathy/list/everyone.oslist.org

Gratitude from me, too, Peggy. As said before — the to do instead of not to do. And also: I’ve worked on „without blame or judgement“ since over a decade and I must admit. I keep failing in regard to the absoluteness of it and finding myself judging—very little compared to former years, but still on occasion. To all: Very useful for me has been the following phrase, which can be applied to a whole variety of topics: I don’t … except sometimes. I don’t … (tell my truth judgementally) … except sometimes. Works well with „eat lots of chocolate“, „scroll through YouTube shorts“, … Insert your personal favourite! Playfully, on the train to Berlin, Marai > Am 04.10.2026 um 19:04 schrieb Peggy Holman via OSList <everyone@oslist.org>: > > Harrison actually mentions Angeles Arrien’s 4-Fold Way in a shortened form in Open Space Technology: A User’s Guide. It's on page 60 of the 3rd Edition and page 48 in the original edition. Oddly, Harrison splits the first statement into two and misses the second entirely. > > Show up > Be present > Tell the truth > Let it all go > > > > On a different note, I had a conversation with Angie once and asked her about a reframing I proposed for the third statement: > > Tell the truth with compassion. > > She thought about it for a moment and said it worked. I have a bias towards it because it speaks to what TO do rather than what NOT to do. > > Peggy > > > > >> On Oct 4, 2026, at 1:41 AM, Bhavesh Patel via OSList <everyone@oslist.org> wrote: >> >> Maybe similar underlying spirit... >> >> Show up and choose to be fully present. - WHOEVER COMES... >> Pay attention to what has heart and meaning. - WHENEVER IT STARTS... >> Tell the truth without blame or judgment. - WHATEVER HAPPENS... >> Be open to outcome, not attached to outcome. - WHEN IT'S OVER... >> >> >> >> On Sun, 4 Oct 2026 at 08:56, Romy Shovelton via OSList <everyone@oslist.org <mailto:everyone@oslist.org>> wrote: >> How wonderful that these ways of being are appreciated so beautifully 😀 >> >> Thanks to Ethelyn for sending this to us . >> >> 😊 >> >> Romy Shovelton >> Cae Ceirch >> Brithdir >> Dolgellau >> Gwynedd >> LL40 2SB >> +44 7767 370739 <tel:07767%20370739> >> >> >> Sent from my iPhone >> >>> On 3 Oct 2026, at 21:19, John Warinner via OSList <everyone@oslist.org <mailto:everyone@oslist.org>> wrote: >>> >>>  >>> I am detecting some possible confusion between the four principles of OST and the “Four Immutable Laws of Spirit” attributed to Angeles Arrien. >>> >>> I believe those (the latter) are different statements. >>> >>> Perhaps something along the lines of: >>> >>> Show up and choose to be fully present. >>> Pay attention to what has heart and meaning. >>> Tell the truth without blame or judgment. >>> Be open to outcome, not attached to outcome. >>> >>> Isn't language fascinating? >>> John >>> >>> John Warinner >>> (541) 815-4103 >>> johnwarinner@gmail.com <> <mailto:johnw@watersolving.com> >>> >>> On Sat, Oct 3, 2026 at 11:36 AM Rijon Erickson via OSList <everyone@oslist.org <mailto:everyone@oslist.org>> wrote: >>> Anne Lamott’s statement was puzzling (and slightly disappointing) in that she was reminded of the “Four Immutable Laws of the Spirit” - using proper nouns as if those “laws” were named by someone other than Harrison. I wonder who introduced them to her in that way. >>> >>> Thankfully the author of the NYT article gave attribution to Harrison. >>> >>> Lamott’s disrespect is most definitely outweighed by the naming of the principles and It’s definitely uplifting to see the principles popularized in such a widely-read publication. >>> >>> >>> >>> On Sat, Oct 3, 2026 at 1:58 PM Peggy Holman via OSList <everyone@oslist.org <mailto:everyone@oslist.org>> wrote: >>> I got a message from Ethelyn Owen, Harrison’s widow, with this link from the New York Times. She said check out #5. >>> <30-the-good-list-nl-lede-videoSixteenByNine3000.jpg> >>> The Good List: 6 Things to Add Delight to Your Day (Gift Article) >>> nytimes.com >>> <https://www.nytimes.com/2026/09/30/briefing/30-the-good-list-keanu-stowaway.html?unlocked_article_code=1.F1E.pz-6.8CAMf5AwxlPv&smid=em-share>The Good List: 6 Things to Add Delight to Your Day (Gift Article) <https://www.nytimes.com/2026/09/30/briefing/30-the-good-list-keanu-stowaway.html?unlocked_article_code=1.F1E.pz-6.8CAMf5AwxlPv&smid=em-share> >>> nytimes.com <https://www.nytimes.com/2026/09/30/briefing/30-the-good-list-keanu-stowaway.html?unlocked_article_code=1.F1E.pz-6.8CAMf5AwxlPv&smid=em-share> >>> >>> The site doesn’t make it easy to get to the story if you’re not a subscriber so I’ve copied the relevant section below. >>> >>> Harrison used to talk of reaching a time when OST was just the way people operated. Through this article, it looks like a bit of the magic made it into the mainstream. I believe we each continue to support that evolution with every space we open, small or large. >>> >>> Peggy >>> 5. >>> >>> How to silence the doubts >>> >>> In “Some Assembly Required: A Journal of My Son’s First Son <https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/305113/some-assembly-required-by-anne-lamott-with-sam-lamott/>,” the writer Anne Lamott surveys the scene of her family doting on her new grandson at the funeral of her beloved uncle Millard: >>> I was reminded of the Four Immutable Laws of the Spirit: Whoever is present are the right people. Whenever it begins is the right time. Whatever happens is the only thing that could have happened. And when it’s over, it’s over. >>> >>> Each one of these “laws,” originally <http://elementaleducation.com/wp-content/uploads/temp/OpenSpaceTechnology--UsersGuide.pdf> coined by the organizational consultant Harrison Owen, seems worth internalizing as a means of quieting our constantly harping minds that tend to insist that everything is wrong — what’s happening, when it’s happening, whom it’s happening to or with. While things may not be perfect, they are, more often than not, pretty much OK. >>> >>> >>> >>> >>> >>> _________________________________ >>> Peggy Holman >>> peggy@peggyholman.com <mailto:peggy@peggyholman.com> >>> >>> Bellevue, WA 98006 >>> 206-948-0432 <tel:(206)%20948-0432> >>> www.peggyholman.com <http://www.peggyholman.com/> >>> >>> Enjoy the award winning Engaging Emergence: Turning Upheaval into Opportunity <https://peggyholman.com/papers/engaging-emergence/> >>> >>> "An angel told me that the only way to step into the fire and not get burnt, is to become >>> the fire". >>> -- Drew Dellinger >>> >>> >>> >>> >>> >>> >>> >>> >>> >>> >>> >>> >>> >>> OSList mailing list -- everyone@oslist.org <mailto:everyone@oslist.org> >>> To unsubscribe send an email to everyone-leave@oslist.org <mailto:everyone-leave@oslist.org> >>> See the archives here: https://oslist.org/empathy/list/everyone.oslist.org <https://oslist.org/empathy/list/everyone.oslist.org>OSList mailing list -- everyone@oslist.org <mailto:everyone@oslist.org> >>> To unsubscribe send an email to everyone-leave@oslist.org <mailto:everyone-leave@oslist.org> >>> See the archives here: https://oslist.org/empathy/list/everyone.oslist.org <https://oslist.org/empathy/list/everyone.oslist.org>OSList mailing list -- everyone@oslist.org <mailto:everyone@oslist.org> >>> To unsubscribe send an email to everyone-leave@oslist.org <mailto:everyone-leave@oslist.org> >>> See the archives here: https://oslist.org/empathy/list/everyone.oslist.org <https://oslist.org/empathy/list/everyone.oslist.org>OSList mailing list -- everyone@oslist.org <mailto:everyone@oslist.org> >> To unsubscribe send an email to everyone-leave@oslist.org <mailto:everyone-leave@oslist.org> >> See the archives here: https://oslist.org/empathy/list/everyone.oslist.org <https://oslist.org/empathy/list/everyone.oslist.org>OSList mailing list -- everyone@oslist.org >> To unsubscribe send an email to everyone-leave@oslist.org >> See the archives here: https://oslist.org/empathy/list/everyone.oslist.org > > OSList mailing list -- everyone@oslist.org > To unsubscribe send an email to everyone-leave@oslist.org > See the archives here: https://oslist.org/empathy/list/everyone.oslist.org

PS: Another favourite of mine: … get attached to outcome … 😅 Yours? > Am 06.10.2026 um 22:01 schrieb Marai Kiele via OSList <everyone@oslist.org>: > > Gratitude from me, too, Peggy. > As said before — the to do instead of not to do. > > And also: > > I’ve worked on „without blame or judgement“ since over a decade and I must admit. > I keep failing in regard to the absoluteness of it and finding myself judging—very little compared to former years, but still on occasion. > > > To all: > > Very useful for me has been the following phrase, which can be applied to a whole variety of topics: > > I don’t … except sometimes. > > I don’t … (tell my truth judgementally) … except sometimes. > > Works well with „eat lots of chocolate“, „scroll through YouTube shorts“, … > > Insert your personal favourite! > > Playfully, on the train to Berlin, > Marai > > >> Am 04.10.2026 um 19:04 schrieb Peggy Holman via OSList <everyone@oslist.org <mailto:everyone@oslist.org>>: >> >> Harrison actually mentions Angeles Arrien’s 4-Fold Way in a shortened form in Open Space Technology: A User’s Guide. It's on page 60 of the 3rd Edition and page 48 in the original edition. Oddly, Harrison splits the first statement into two and misses the second entirely. >> >> Show up >> Be present >> Tell the truth >> Let it all go >> >> >> >> On a different note, I had a conversation with Angie once and asked her about a reframing I proposed for the third statement: >> >> Tell the truth with compassion. >> >> She thought about it for a moment and said it worked. I have a bias towards it because it speaks to what TO do rather than what NOT to do. >> >> Peggy >> >> >> >> >>> On Oct 4, 2026, at 1:41 AM, Bhavesh Patel via OSList <everyone@oslist.org <mailto:everyone@oslist.org>> wrote: >>> >>> Maybe similar underlying spirit... >>> >>> Show up and choose to be fully present. - WHOEVER COMES... >>> Pay attention to what has heart and meaning. - WHENEVER IT STARTS... >>> Tell the truth without blame or judgment. - WHATEVER HAPPENS... >>> Be open to outcome, not attached to outcome. - WHEN IT'S OVER... >>> >>> >>> >>> On Sun, 4 Oct 2026 at 08:56, Romy Shovelton via OSList <everyone@oslist.org <mailto:everyone@oslist.org>> wrote: >>> How wonderful that these ways of being are appreciated so beautifully 😀 >>> >>> Thanks to Ethelyn for sending this to us . >>> >>> 😊 >>> >>> Romy Shovelton >>> Cae Ceirch >>> Brithdir >>> Dolgellau >>> Gwynedd >>> LL40 2SB >>> +44 7767 370739 <tel:07767%20370739> >>> >>> >>> Sent from my iPhone >>> >>>> On 3 Oct 2026, at 21:19, John Warinner via OSList <everyone@oslist.org <mailto:everyone@oslist.org>> wrote: >>>> >>>>  >>>> I am detecting some possible confusion between the four principles of OST and the “Four Immutable Laws of Spirit” attributed to Angeles Arrien. >>>> >>>> I believe those (the latter) are different statements. >>>> >>>> Perhaps something along the lines of: >>>> >>>> Show up and choose to be fully present. >>>> Pay attention to what has heart and meaning. >>>> Tell the truth without blame or judgment. >>>> Be open to outcome, not attached to outcome. >>>> >>>> Isn't language fascinating? >>>> John >>>> >>>> John Warinner >>>> (541) 815-4103 >>>> johnwarinner@gmail.com <> <mailto:johnw@watersolving.com> >>>> >>>> On Sat, Oct 3, 2026 at 11:36 AM Rijon Erickson via OSList <everyone@oslist.org <mailto:everyone@oslist.org>> wrote: >>>> Anne Lamott’s statement was puzzling (and slightly disappointing) in that she was reminded of the “Four Immutable Laws of the Spirit” - using proper nouns as if those “laws” were named by someone other than Harrison. I wonder who introduced them to her in that way. >>>> >>>> Thankfully the author of the NYT article gave attribution to Harrison. >>>> >>>> Lamott’s disrespect is most definitely outweighed by the naming of the principles and It’s definitely uplifting to see the principles popularized in such a widely-read publication. >>>> >>>> >>>> >>>> On Sat, Oct 3, 2026 at 1:58 PM Peggy Holman via OSList <everyone@oslist.org <mailto:everyone@oslist.org>> wrote: >>>> I got a message from Ethelyn Owen, Harrison’s widow, with this link from the New York Times. She said check out #5. >>>> <30-the-good-list-nl-lede-videoSixteenByNine3000.jpg> >>>> The Good List: 6 Things to Add Delight to Your Day (Gift Article) >>>> nytimes.com >>>> <https://www.nytimes.com/2026/09/30/briefing/30-the-good-list-keanu-stowaway.html?unlocked_article_code=1.F1E.pz-6.8CAMf5AwxlPv&smid=em-share>The Good List: 6 Things to Add Delight to Your Day (Gift Article) <https://www.nytimes.com/2026/09/30/briefing/30-the-good-list-keanu-stowaway.html?unlocked_article_code=1.F1E.pz-6.8CAMf5AwxlPv&smid=em-share> >>>> nytimes.com <https://www.nytimes.com/2026/09/30/briefing/30-the-good-list-keanu-stowaway.html?unlocked_article_code=1.F1E.pz-6.8CAMf5AwxlPv&smid=em-share> >>>> >>>> The site doesn’t make it easy to get to the story if you’re not a subscriber so I’ve copied the relevant section below. >>>> >>>> Harrison used to talk of reaching a time when OST was just the way people operated. Through this article, it looks like a bit of the magic made it into the mainstream. I believe we each continue to support that evolution with every space we open, small or large. >>>> >>>> Peggy >>>> 5. >>>> >>>> How to silence the doubts >>>> >>>> In “Some Assembly Required: A Journal of My Son’s First Son <https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/305113/some-assembly-required-by-anne-lamott-with-sam-lamott/>,” the writer Anne Lamott surveys the scene of her family doting on her new grandson at the funeral of her beloved uncle Millard: >>>> I was reminded of the Four Immutable Laws of the Spirit: Whoever is present are the right people. Whenever it begins is the right time. Whatever happens is the only thing that could have happened. And when it’s over, it’s over. >>>> >>>> Each one of these “laws,” originally <http://elementaleducation.com/wp-content/uploads/temp/OpenSpaceTechnology--UsersGuide.pdf> coined by the organizational consultant Harrison Owen, seems worth internalizing as a means of quieting our constantly harping minds that tend to insist that everything is wrong — what’s happening, when it’s happening, whom it’s happening to or with. While things may not be perfect, they are, more often than not, pretty much OK. >>>> >>>> >>>> >>>> >>>> >>>> _________________________________ >>>> Peggy Holman >>>> peggy@peggyholman.com <mailto:peggy@peggyholman.com> >>>> >>>> Bellevue, WA 98006 >>>> 206-948-0432 <tel:(206)%20948-0432> >>>> www.peggyholman.com <http://www.peggyholman.com/> >>>> >>>> Enjoy the award winning Engaging Emergence: Turning Upheaval into Opportunity <https://peggyholman.com/papers/engaging-emergence/> >>>> >>>> "An angel told me that the only way to step into the fire and not get burnt, is to become >>>> the fire". >>>> -- Drew Dellinger >>>> >>>> >>>> >>>> >>>> >>>> >>>> >>>> >>>> >>>> >>>> >>>> >>>> >>>> OSList mailing list -- everyone@oslist.org <mailto:everyone@oslist.org> >>>> To unsubscribe send an email to everyone-leave@oslist.org <mailto:everyone-leave@oslist.org> >>>> See the archives here: https://oslist.org/empathy/list/everyone.oslist.org <https://oslist.org/empathy/list/everyone.oslist.org>OSList mailing list -- everyone@oslist.org <mailto:everyone@oslist.org> >>>> To unsubscribe send an email to everyone-leave@oslist.org <mailto:everyone-leave@oslist.org> >>>> See the archives here: https://oslist.org/empathy/list/everyone.oslist.org <https://oslist.org/empathy/list/everyone.oslist.org>OSList mailing list -- everyone@oslist.org <mailto:everyone@oslist.org> >>>> To unsubscribe send an email to everyone-leave@oslist.org <mailto:everyone-leave@oslist.org> >>>> See the archives here: https://oslist.org/empathy/list/everyone.oslist.org <https://oslist.org/empathy/list/everyone.oslist.org>OSList mailing list -- everyone@oslist.org <mailto:everyone@oslist.org> >>> To unsubscribe send an email to everyone-leave@oslist.org <mailto:everyone-leave@oslist.org> >>> See the archives here: https://oslist.org/empathy/list/everyone.oslist.org <https://oslist.org/empathy/list/everyone.oslist.org>OSList mailing list -- everyone@oslist.org <mailto:everyone@oslist.org> >>> To unsubscribe send an email to everyone-leave@oslist.org <mailto:everyone-leave@oslist.org> >>> See the archives here: https://oslist.org/empathy/list/everyone.oslist.org <https://oslist.org/empathy/list/everyone.oslist.org> >> OSList mailing list -- everyone@oslist.org <mailto:everyone@oslist.org> >> To unsubscribe send an email to everyone-leave@oslist.org <mailto:everyone-leave@oslist.org> >> See the archives here: https://oslist.org/empathy/list/everyone.oslist.org <https://oslist.org/empathy/list/everyone.oslist.org> > OSList mailing list -- everyone@oslist.org > To unsubscribe send an email to everyone-leave@oslist.org > See the archives here: https://oslist.org/empathy/list/everyone.oslist.org