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Anne Stadler Post-Memorial Update

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Peggy Holman
Fri, Dec 15, 2023 5:37 AM

Dear friends of Anne Stadler,

What’s in this message?
About the online memorials
Upcoming tributes to Anne
Don’t want more messages about Anne? How to unsubscribe

Thank you from the hosts of Anne’s online memorial with the blessings of her family,
Peggy Holman, Anil Sachdev, Annick Corriveau, Bill Aal, and
Matthew, Sue, and Aaron, and Mike Stadler

About the online memorials

Many thanks to the 150 people who joined one of the two sessions celebrating Anne. We held the sessions at two times to accommodate the many time zones where Anne worked and played. Anne’s friends from all over the world shared their stories. Many of us felt her hand weaving us together, making the Radiant Network more visible.

As promised, the chats https://r20.rs6.net/tn.jsp?f=001cK3FhA-6XDAW_XrvPQfHMd25tYt5lXg1kfi2pQDDDWIOTf_l86jdTMPiMGZ5qM9l9t0LXfwT5_G8XuhMklak_CwAgmPtJhsbfnCN-MvvZzhdbKyDaf0tivhoZrU0WOHyj6VEgv1ybFUgYKxm5HNd5d2vY4cJsD5jWskKzXsE7YTOi-Xq5IBAdxes-Sio4eiuHuPJ-UkSI3VroTbS1Jm3jk_Dqgpxw9gWnMrMZ7fMyIRs50dMD_d2tZlLt07DzmxB&c=M9XCc4uuMG6N_AYJBOCX7qFbvq6gP9xpbrZxPO_G3iFGx2MhD6czHg==&ch=TXNy_cgsW03y_2uXXPvfb8fe6o8vMOinjkNZfJPhKSHiMpM6_t6sPQ== from our sessions are in the Send Anne Love https://r20.rs6.net/tn.jsp?f=001cK3FhA-6XDAW_XrvPQfHMd25tYt5lXg1kfi2pQDDDWIOTf_l86jdTMPiMGZ5qM9lJPgeUzBIQDGjsv_EIozPoxt5SYRrjWOtsAhGBpB6lVDIKzXVTNZjfurOWsxEj-YGATkGrFMlGbvnhFkkdscpx4XA5i_JofYMMnlqfgxsPUyrYjms0dUZVWSAiws3C69lHLjoB2JaI6t_o0d8ogHD2GSpgvP6C4CIzQnMrtkVATA=&c=M9XCc4uuMG6N_AYJBOCX7qFbvq6gP9xpbrZxPO_G3iFGx2MhD6czHg==&ch=TXNy_cgsW03y_2uXXPvfb8fe6o8vMOinjkNZfJPhKSHiMpM6_t6sPQ== Google Doc, notably responses to the closing question: What is a gift you are leaving with from our celebration of Anne?

We have had multiple requests for the recordings of the session. If you attended and have an objection to sharing the recording, let us know by December 20. If no one objects, we’ll add the links to the G-doc.

Dr. Tusi Avegalio, who attended the second session from Hawai’i, spoke of Anne as a great leader, symbolized in her passing by the sea tern flying alone. Further, he said that in Polynesian culture, leadership involves healing – being made whole again. And leadership is not leading forward, but rather weaving forward. In his words...

In the Islands, when we weave, we weave sails. We are a voyaging people...One person does not weave a sail. It requires at least 10 in a very straight line weaving forward, together, in unison, in spiritual precision. Because if one weave is off you can jeopardize the canoe, the voyagers, and the survival of the people in the future.

And so the emphasis shifts away from the understanding that the parts make up the whole, so the emphasis is on the individual. In our world, the whole organizes the parts. So when the weavers weave forward, they are attuning to the whole....

It’s something we shared [with Anne] with great delight...If you want peace, you want harmony, if you want balance, you’ll only get there with a weave.

Committed to “co-learning,” Anne fostered loving learning relationships with individuals and in the communities where she worked, enabling this kind of equality and cooperation.

Upcoming Tributes to Anne

Haven’t yet added your thoughts or pictures to the Send Anne Love https://r20.rs6.net/tn.jsp?f=001cK3FhA-6XDAW_XrvPQfHMd25tYt5lXg1kfi2pQDDDWIOTf_l86jdTMPiMGZ5qM9lJPgeUzBIQDGjsv_EIozPoxt5SYRrjWOtsAhGBpB6lVDIKzXVTNZjfurOWsxEj-YGATkGrFMlGbvnhFkkdscpx4XA5i_JofYMMnlqfgxsPUyrYjms0dUZVWSAiws3C69lHLjoB2JaI6t_o0d8ogHD2GSpgvP6C4CIzQnMrtkVATA=&c=M9XCc4uuMG6N_AYJBOCX7qFbvq6gP9xpbrZxPO_G3iFGx2MhD6czHg==&ch=TXNy_cgsW03y_2uXXPvfb8fe6o8vMOinjkNZfJPhKSHiMpM6_t6sPQ== Google Doc? It isn’t too late! If you want a prompt, consider this: What did Anne’s life mean to you? To the world?


Anne’s son, Aaron Stadler, plans to post clips from the memorial celebrations (with permission from the speakers) to Anne Stadler’s Bulletin Board https://r20.rs6.net/tn.jsp?f=001cK3FhA-6XDAW_XrvPQfHMd25tYt5lXg1kfi2pQDDDWIOTf_l86jdTMPiMGZ5qM9l3ix0SX2VKNWqkCL7xtqbbAmhed9CVU15vsjxw2xyn8S4xuoLN4bNfk9mcJ329dWVjOtd3yEFKjOmihARk8LBVLT4ovyd81J0hMHWSwgQD7M=&c=M9XCc4uuMG6N_AYJBOCX7qFbvq6gP9xpbrZxPO_G3iFGx2MhD6czHg==&ch=TXNy_cgsW03y_2uXXPvfb8fe6o8vMOinjkNZfJPhKSHiMpM6_t6sPQ== on Facebook.


We received the inspiration to create an Anne Stadler website, which would include the material in the Send Anne Love Google Doc .. If you have design ideas or web building skills to offer, please let us know by replying to this message.


Anne’s family is planning an in-person gathering when the weather is nice. Details to come later.


SOIL - the School of Inspired Leadership https://r20.rs6.net/tn.jsp?f=001cK3FhA-6XDAW_XrvPQfHMd25tYt5lXg1kfi2pQDDDWIOTf_l86jdTMPiMGZ5qM9lyhCWKfBNM6hrqNLIMrvuEDgKT5E6aXMyOHfQgiiUu9lz2BuyCA8zW0rU-yFuTtIQKNBOeUssvwDnoCi8PDnz2Q==&c=M9XCc4uuMG6N_AYJBOCX7qFbvq6gP9xpbrZxPO_G3iFGx2MhD6czHg==&ch=TXNy_cgsW03y_2uXXPvfb8fe6o8vMOinjkNZfJPhKSHiMpM6_t6sPQ==, where Anne worked with Anil Sachdev, is dedicating its annual Open Space convening held near Dharamshala, India to Anne and Dave Stadler. Details to come later.


A possible book about Anne? Some conversations are underway. If you have something to contribute, please contact Matthew Stadler (Matthew.stadler@tutanota.com mailto:Matthew.stadler@tutanota.com) and/or Prasad Kaipa (prasad.kaipa@gmail.com mailto:prasad.kaipa@gmail.com).

  Dear friends of Anne Stadler, What’s in this message? About the online memorials Upcoming tributes to Anne Don’t want more messages about Anne? How to unsubscribe Thank you from the hosts of Anne’s online memorial with the blessings of her family, Peggy Holman, Anil Sachdev, Annick Corriveau, Bill Aal, and Matthew, Sue, and Aaron, and Mike Stadler About the online memorials Many thanks to the 150 people who joined one of the two sessions celebrating Anne. We held the sessions at two times to accommodate the many time zones where Anne worked and played. Anne’s friends from all over the world shared their stories. Many of us felt her hand weaving us together, making the Radiant Network more visible. As promised, the chats <https://r20.rs6.net/tn.jsp?f=001cK3FhA-6XDAW_XrvPQfHMd25tYt5lXg1kfi2pQDDDWIOTf_l86jdTMPiMGZ5qM9l9t0LXfwT5_G8XuhMklak_CwAgmPtJhsbfnCN-MvvZzhdbKyDaf0tivhoZrU0WOHyj6VEgv1ybFUgYKxm5HNd5d2vY4cJsD5jWskKzXsE7YTOi-Xq5IBAdxes-Sio4eiuHuPJ-UkSI3VroTbS1Jm3jk_Dqgpxw9gWnMrMZ7fMyIRs50dMD_d2tZlLt07DzmxB&c=M9XCc4uuMG6N_AYJBOCX7qFbvq6gP9xpbrZxPO_G3iFGx2MhD6czHg==&ch=TXNy_cgsW03y_2uXXPvfb8fe6o8vMOinjkNZfJPhKSHiMpM6_t6sPQ==> from our sessions are in the Send Anne Love <https://r20.rs6.net/tn.jsp?f=001cK3FhA-6XDAW_XrvPQfHMd25tYt5lXg1kfi2pQDDDWIOTf_l86jdTMPiMGZ5qM9lJPgeUzBIQDGjsv_EIozPoxt5SYRrjWOtsAhGBpB6lVDIKzXVTNZjfurOWsxEj-YGATkGrFMlGbvnhFkkdscpx4XA5i_JofYMMnlqfgxsPUyrYjms0dUZVWSAiws3C69lHLjoB2JaI6t_o0d8ogHD2GSpgvP6C4CIzQnMrtkVATA=&c=M9XCc4uuMG6N_AYJBOCX7qFbvq6gP9xpbrZxPO_G3iFGx2MhD6czHg==&ch=TXNy_cgsW03y_2uXXPvfb8fe6o8vMOinjkNZfJPhKSHiMpM6_t6sPQ==> Google Doc, notably responses to the closing question: What is a gift you are leaving with from our celebration of Anne? We have had multiple requests for the recordings of the session. If you attended and have an objection to sharing the recording, let us know by December 20. If no one objects, we’ll add the links to the G-doc. Dr. Tusi Avegalio, who attended the second session from Hawai’i, spoke of Anne as a great leader, symbolized in her passing by the sea tern flying alone. Further, he said that in Polynesian culture, leadership involves healing – being made whole again. And leadership is not leading forward, but rather weaving forward. In his words... In the Islands, when we weave, we weave sails. We are a voyaging people...One person does not weave a sail. It requires at least 10 in a very straight line weaving forward, together, in unison, in spiritual precision. Because if one weave is off you can jeopardize the canoe, the voyagers, and the survival of the people in the future. And so the emphasis shifts away from the understanding that the parts make up the whole, so the emphasis is on the individual. In our world, the whole organizes the parts. So when the weavers weave forward, they are attuning to the whole.... It’s something we shared [with Anne] with great delight...If you want peace, you want harmony, if you want balance, you’ll only get there with a weave. Committed to “co-learning,” Anne fostered loving learning relationships with individuals and in the communities where she worked, enabling this kind of equality and cooperation. Upcoming Tributes to Anne Haven’t yet added your thoughts or pictures to the Send Anne Love <https://r20.rs6.net/tn.jsp?f=001cK3FhA-6XDAW_XrvPQfHMd25tYt5lXg1kfi2pQDDDWIOTf_l86jdTMPiMGZ5qM9lJPgeUzBIQDGjsv_EIozPoxt5SYRrjWOtsAhGBpB6lVDIKzXVTNZjfurOWsxEj-YGATkGrFMlGbvnhFkkdscpx4XA5i_JofYMMnlqfgxsPUyrYjms0dUZVWSAiws3C69lHLjoB2JaI6t_o0d8ogHD2GSpgvP6C4CIzQnMrtkVATA=&c=M9XCc4uuMG6N_AYJBOCX7qFbvq6gP9xpbrZxPO_G3iFGx2MhD6czHg==&ch=TXNy_cgsW03y_2uXXPvfb8fe6o8vMOinjkNZfJPhKSHiMpM6_t6sPQ==> Google Doc? It isn’t too late! If you want a prompt, consider this: What did Anne’s life mean to you? To the world? *** Anne’s son, Aaron Stadler, plans to post clips from the memorial celebrations (with permission from the speakers) to Anne Stadler’s Bulletin Board <https://r20.rs6.net/tn.jsp?f=001cK3FhA-6XDAW_XrvPQfHMd25tYt5lXg1kfi2pQDDDWIOTf_l86jdTMPiMGZ5qM9l3ix0SX2VKNWqkCL7xtqbbAmhed9CVU15vsjxw2xyn8S4xuoLN4bNfk9mcJ329dWVjOtd3yEFKjOmihARk8LBVLT4ovyd81J0hMHWSwgQD7M=&c=M9XCc4uuMG6N_AYJBOCX7qFbvq6gP9xpbrZxPO_G3iFGx2MhD6czHg==&ch=TXNy_cgsW03y_2uXXPvfb8fe6o8vMOinjkNZfJPhKSHiMpM6_t6sPQ==> on Facebook. *** We received the inspiration to create an Anne Stadler website, which would include the material in the Send Anne Love Google Doc .. If you have design ideas or web building skills to offer, please let us know by replying to this message. *** Anne’s family is planning an in-person gathering when the weather is nice. Details to come later. *** SOIL - the School of Inspired Leadership <https://r20.rs6.net/tn.jsp?f=001cK3FhA-6XDAW_XrvPQfHMd25tYt5lXg1kfi2pQDDDWIOTf_l86jdTMPiMGZ5qM9lyhCWKfBNM6hrqNLIMrvuEDgKT5E6aXMyOHfQgiiUu9lz2BuyCA8zW0rU-yFuTtIQKNBOeUssvwDnoCi8PDnz2Q==&c=M9XCc4uuMG6N_AYJBOCX7qFbvq6gP9xpbrZxPO_G3iFGx2MhD6czHg==&ch=TXNy_cgsW03y_2uXXPvfb8fe6o8vMOinjkNZfJPhKSHiMpM6_t6sPQ==>, where Anne worked with Anil Sachdev, is dedicating its annual Open Space convening held near Dharamshala, India to Anne and Dave Stadler. Details to come later. *** A possible book about Anne? Some conversations are underway. If you have something to contribute, please contact Matthew Stadler (Matthew.stadler@tutanota.com <mailto:Matthew.stadler@tutanota.com>) and/or Prasad Kaipa (prasad.kaipa@gmail.com <mailto:prasad.kaipa@gmail.com>).